I read today as many of you did, some mind numbing trivia that the prettier spears is having a baby. Usually I hate media distractions but sometimes they touch on the cultures views on larger issues, like black stars and the injustice system. But Jami ( if you were older I could say you were hot) spears is basking in maternal glow, proud to be a young mother and I say good for her. My generation has been obsessed with putting child birth off til after they finish partying and living at home which occurs around 45. I myself was a teen parent, I am 37 and my daughter is about to turn 20. My peers who waited are still getting divorced after waiting forever to get married. People acted like young parents was a curse when actually there has only been 1(now ) 2 generations in history where being a teen mother(like the virgin mary) hasn't been the norm. her family has $$ so no welfare, like many poor older women end up on after divorce. Why be 50 with a kid in pre-school. kids for 2-20
2007-12-19
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no offense salma or halle, if I didn't already have 3 baby mommas and 9 kids already(and if I was single--my wife made me add that) I would like to be mr berry.-----lol
2007-12-19
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just wait till she turns into a has-been child star with drug and alcohol issues. we will see how well she can support that baby then
2007-12-19 05:06:06
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answered by lizzyb 4
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I don't think being a teen parent is reason for celebration.. Sure, Jami Spears has money but, as you can see with her older and much more trashy sister that money and material things cannot buy her happiness... Do you honestly think that Nickelodeon is going to "allow" her a show if she's pregnant? I don't think so... .I think that waiting until you are really truly ready to have a baby is what matters most NOT necessarily your age or how much money you have or want to make..I have two children ages 3 1/2 and 1 1/2 and I'm going to be 33 I think that's a good age and maturity level to handle raising a family. Each person is different... I hope that she is happy and in turn is blessed with a happy family unlike her sister....
2007-12-19 13:16:20
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answered by pebblespro 7
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The reason that people have kids when they are mid 30's it's because they are established. A house, a career, 2 cars and good income is a must I think. Who wants to live pay check to paycheck and try to raise a kid. You live paycheck to paycheck when you are in your 20's. Because there are other priorities.
Having a baby at a early age, dooms the future of that kid. I mean when I was 19 I was in college and acting pretty stupid. If I had a kid back then I would not raise that kid the right way.
I don't think people should have kids before they establish a ground to raise the kid. If you can't raise your kid right, your kid is going to see and experience that and is going to raise his/her kid the same way you did. I think think that's why the majority of the kids now are lacking common sense. Because they have never seen one.
2007-12-19 13:10:57
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answered by Connor M 2
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"How to Be A Rich Ho,have Kids Out Of Wedlock and Rub It In The Publics Face at 16" By Jamie Lynn Spears
Somebody shoot me....Respectable News agencys Have lost there Minds!!!!!!
2007-12-19 13:15:33
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answered by Vince 2
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It is unusual to find someone who approves of giving birth before you are legally allowed to buy a cigarette.
I'll say this -- she'll have it easier than most. She won't have to worry about where her rent is going to come from. She won't have to work two jobs making minimum wage.
It will still be a hard life for her though. Motherhood isn't easy for anyone. I can't imagine how difficult it would be to be have a child while still feeling like a child.
2007-12-19 13:08:50
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answered by Tadow 4
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Children should not be having children. Physically it is a risk and most girls, especially miss Spears and her older sister are not mature enough to handle the responsibility of motherhood. In my opinion, she is doing it to get attention from both her parents and the media. Would not surprise me at all if in two years the child in taken away from her custody.
2007-12-19 13:22:37
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answered by ? 5
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She met the father in church. So I guess she got pregnant with the approval of God. I don't think she's the first 17 year old to get pregnant and won't be the last.
2007-12-19 13:35:08
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answered by Anonymous
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nah, still too young. i was 18 and i wish i'd waited until around now. (28) i've got three myself. just because her family has money, so no welfare doesnt make it a smart thing to do. her body is still growing. and she's already growing something insider her before she's done with her own growing.
2007-12-19 13:18:06
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answered by Anonymous
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she is a child! the money won't last forever either.
2007-12-19 13:18:41
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answered by Ottilie 5
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what kind of example is she showing, no education, she is still a child, she will need the help of her family.... i think is ridicouls to glorify her.
2007-12-19 13:05:35
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answered by Anonymous
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