Divorced 3 times and married for the fourth (17 years)
If Barry Bonds never got up to bat he would have never set the record for homeruns. (steroids helped to)
The lesson is that when you give up on life, life gives up on you. If you burned your hand as a child do you avoid heat forever? Marriage is not the problem, people are. People rush into things and do not evaluate themselves and their mates prior to marrying. I have made this mistake three times and then finally understood what I needed and found the right person to share my life with. We are very happy even after 17 years, I am passionatly in love with her and she with me. What if I hadn't tried again? I would have never known what love and happiness is.
Yoda out
2007-12-19 04:58:32
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answered by Yoda 5
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Hello,
Been divorced for gosh, over 10 years now.
I have no plains what so ever to marry again. I am now very afraid of marriage.
My ex hubby had no problem getting remarried when he left prison, to a guard no less!
Some people take such things as marriage serious. I do not expect any man to marry someone who has kids and health problems.
Reality is just that.
I do have a great guy, but no marriage is ever brought up by neither one of us....I make sure his money is his. I make sure the bills are separate, no joint banking accounts (his money is his), and he is free to do what he wants too (though some strange reason he likes to stick around the house).
Never plain on getting married again.....
2007-12-19 05:14:29
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answered by Anonymous
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The easy answer would be NO. No, because I'm not willing to go through the hurt. No, because I'm not willing to go through the hassel. And NO, because I'm not willing to waste all the money again.
HOWEVER! I think it's a lot like someone who swears they're done with men/women/both when a relationship comes to an end. You say it. You guard yourself for some time. You think back on it and dread getting hurt again. But in the end, being alone SUCKS!!
So, YES. I will be getting married again. And I can think of no other man more worthy than my "second-chance" then the father of my gorgeous baby girl. WISH ME LUCK!
2007-12-19 05:10:26
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answered by circe_de_aiaia 2
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I'm married for the third time, and if something happened and it didn't work out I would get married again if I met someone I wanted to be with.
2007-12-19 04:56:41
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answered by Sandy Ego 7
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I was married before and divorced my first husband...made bad choices in that marriage....don't hate him...still love him and respect him as a father....now I am remarried...and love my husband with all my heart....So yes I did get married again and love it!
I learned a long time ago to never say never...it will inevitably come bite you in the azz...
2007-12-19 04:56:54
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answered by Anonymous
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well a divorce does something to you i was divorced once and thought no one would ever want me again then I got married again my biggest fear after my first divorce was not getting married again but finding someone to want me again
2007-12-19 04:53:16
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answered by mrpoet03 4
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I just did. I was divorced for 7 years before I took the plunge again. I think I did it right this time, he has everything I want in a man.
2007-12-19 04:52:11
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answered by Anonymous
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One day perhaps, but I definitely won't rush into anything. I will date someone for a long time before getting married again. We were together for two years before we got married. I'm in no rush. I'll definitely take things slow.
2007-12-19 04:56:53
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answered by AK 3
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I'm not quite divorced (almost) but would marry again. Hopefully, we all learn from past mistakes & do it better the next time.
2007-12-19 04:53:31
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answered by Pogo peeps 6
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My answer to this question right now is no. Ask me again in 5 years. The first one was so freaking horrible... that i don't know if I can do that again. Although I have learned to live with someone for awhile before even dreaming about marriage.
2007-12-19 05:01:20
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answered by djducki 3
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