Been feeling down for a while. Got dumped with no explanation (meet loads of guys that like me, but none stuck around). No idea why and neither do my friends. Moved house so I have to travel further to work. Job is ok, but boring. Can’t remember the last time I slept properly. Failed my driving test for the 4th time this morning! Always feeling useless and tried.
Got a "fun" 2nd job at a theatre so I could meet more people my age, get extra money and have fun (I love the performing arts.) But I get home late and it makes me more tired. I was hoping to audition for drama school to start in September, but stopped learning my lines because I was so down.
Have tried being positive, but I feel I have to make some big changes in my life.
Want to get a job closer to home, but feel like I should stay at least a year because it looks good on a CV.
Just want more time to myself and to allow myself to heal. But can’t decide what to do. Am so confused, my life just isn’t going right.
2007-12-19 02:50:32 · 4 answers · asked by Bubbles 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Thought of going travelling but then am I just wasting time and running away from myself?
If am away I can't trying getting the career I think I really want.
2007-12-19 02:52:37 · update #1
Who do you have that's safe to talk to?
By "safe" I mean someone that will keep things confidential, won't judge you and is willing to let you 'unload" on.
Is is accurate to say you're doing everything 'right" or are "supposed to do" but aren't happy?
By "(I) Just want more time to myself and to allow myself to heal. But can’t decide what to do." are you saying you need a break and want some time to reflect on what you're doing?
My suggestion is to contact someone that does counseling. There are referral agencies and help lines. Ministers, school counselors and others may give you some good leads. Remember with counselors it's not not always a good match. If you don't feel comfortable, ask for another.
Use the counselor both as a dumping ground and as a sounding board. Take the backpack of frustrations off and dump it out on the floor. Kick things around.
Luck
2007-12-19 03:04:51 · answer #1 · answered by icabod 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that you are,first off, searching for the bad. You seem to just be looking just to tell someone all the hurt inside. Either it be for attention. or just to seem more exaggerated. WHy don't you look for something positive in each day.. Sure, i have horrible days, horrible moments, sometimes i just hate it all... but just because ONE good thing that might of glimsped my day-i hold dear to my smile.
Try to stop being so negative. If you want happiness, stop trying to be sad. (yes,it is what you are doing) Things happen. BOYs leave. Friends are lost. It is part of life. and moving on is all there is to it. Because nothing is permitt. Everything is permitted to change and easily done at any given moment.
romans 12:12. BE joyful to hope. Patient in affliction. And Faithful to prayer.
2007-12-19 02:56:18 · answer #2 · answered by mandy 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Certainly, I agree with you despite having the difficvcoltà not to make English grammatical errors.
Hello from Scarli
2007-12-19 02:56:41 · answer #3 · answered by Scarli,la vendetta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Travelling will expand your mind & you probably will only have this time in your life to do it..it may make you realise what it is in life you really want.
2007-12-19 02:54:31 · answer #4 · answered by Meeeee! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋