Why Do Ladies Always want to cuddle after sex?Why is it that many ladies are so reckless to have sex. why ?
2007-12-19 01:22:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Sex releases oxytocin which makes us feel all loving. It plays a big part in lactation after having a baby also, stimulates the milk and helps mom feel connected to her baby, its natures way of making sure we love the squaling thing rather than wringing its neck after its cried for 5 hours straight. I know, that probably weirds you out a little but there it is. Its also a big culprit that causes women to associate sex with love, especially if its really good sex, even if you are a total ********.
2007-12-19 01:29:56 · answer #1 · answered by Tammy S 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Many want the physical touching and the intimacy because they want to feel loved and protected. Could be that sex is just the vehicle to get them the attention they are seeking.
Sometimes the cuddling is more satisfying than the sex is because the lady didn't have an orgasm. Making love and having sex are not necessarily the same thing. Guys get this concept easily, but gals tend to confuse sex with love. I think it has something to do with the genitalia being within for women and exposed for men.
It is plain to see when a guy is aroused and when he's satisfied. Not so easy to see on women. Though, if you rocked her world and made her get off, she surely wouldn't be holding on to you so tightly for at least long enough to cool down.
Women reckless to have sex are compensating for their low self esteem and self worth. Or else they are prostituting for whatever it is they are getting from the guy.
Now that I've been sharing my intimate thoughts with you, wanna snuggle up and spoon? Ha ha ha ha, just the price of intercourse.
2007-12-19 02:34:14 · answer #2 · answered by allannela 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I don't always want to cuddle after sex...sometimes i'm too hot and sweaty...and if it's really good I'm spent and just want to lie there and enjoy the afterglow....also sex releases chemicals in a woman's brain that makes her wants that closeness and intimacy, while different chemicals make a man want to sleep. And why are so many ladies so reckless to have sex? What do you mean by reckless? Sex is fun, is I can say to that really.
2007-12-19 01:25:40 · answer #3 · answered by Future Cat Lady 3 · 7⤊ 2⤋
I don't always want to cuddle it depends on who I am with. If I love the person or feel strongly for them then yes I want to cuddle. Or if I feel insecure for some reason then I want to cuddle but if it's just sex then leave me alone lets get a pizza go to sleep or watch TV
2007-12-19 01:28:28 · answer #4 · answered by lissa 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
To have some emotional connection. Remember women are VERY emotional. They're more concerned about the relational aspects of sex.
For your other question. Some women just enjoy sex. Others haven't been taught the positive and negative consequences of sex.
2007-12-19 01:36:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
It's called the afterglow, and I don't mind it. Cuddling is good before and after sex. It lets you kick back and reflect on the experience. I've had a few quickies, and while it relieves the hormonal passion, it feels so mechanical if you both part ways afterwards.
2007-12-19 01:26:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
It is a comfort thing. We love to be held even if it's not after sex. I loved cuddling up to my boyfriend (now ex). And he loved it to.
2007-12-19 01:26:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
ladies want to feel special and savor the moment. its not being reckless but ladies are more trusting than men.
2007-12-19 01:26:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't know, but some guys like that too. It's kinda irritating, especially when all I want is a shower and a cigarette! LOL. After THAT< we can cuddle!!
2007-12-19 01:38:04 · answer #9 · answered by ballistik 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Because of guys!!! Guys make a woman reckless! The pressure you put on us! We need the closeness of cuddling to reassure us that we matter to you and that this isn't a one time thing or a FWB type relationship!
2007-12-19 01:24:39 · answer #10 · answered by Linda S 6 · 5⤊ 4⤋