Is she changing?

Question

Everyhting was good in freshman year. We started to go out in March and continued into the summer. The friends she had then were awesome and they liked me and I liked them. They were so much fun to be around. We saw eachother 3-4 times a week and everyhting was great. Yet once sports started up in the new school year she started to get a new group of friends. Friends much "cooler". I talked to some of them and they knew me but its started to go down hill. Shes ditched her old friends, shes starting to drink with the new ones (and she knows i dont like that), and shes hanging out with her new friends mroe then me now(since they are like SCREW BOYS!). It's christmas break and we haven't even talked about hanging out or anything. She gets mad at me when i talk about this subject to her and now she feels distant and i dont know what to do. She thinks everyhtings okay but to me she doesn't seem the same. Yet she said when she doesn't see me after school it feels like shes missing something.

Please help me on what to do.

Answer 1

Keep relations with her and relax, people need to go thru all kinds of "phases" to find themselves, the worst thing you can do is push her AWAY from you, but you need to be strong. You need to be a bit stronger then the rest and accept the fact that you well feel for this girl unconditionally, that no matter what you FEEL for her. With that said, try and only completely one mission with her and let the rest flow, BE THERE FOR HER, thats it, any else well just drive her away right now, just talk with her, and try to grow and learn with her, not easy stuff.... the usually thing to do is forget about her and move on, but theirs a stronger path.....