We weren't using lube at the time, so I assume this is what was wrong but I was very 'ready' if you know what I mean so is it still possible for this to happen even though i was really wet?
He is slightly better endowed than others and I am very tight so what is the most likely reason for this happening?
2007-12-19 00:32:09 · 13 answers · asked by ♥ Dal Mad! ♥ 6 in Health ➔ Men's Health
it was OK for a while then it started hurting him, he said it was like a sharp pain but then it stopped and we were fine but we used lube that time just to be sure.
Could it be that when I'm wet i'm not actually wet all the way, just the first inch or so?
I ask this because before now, when we've done it without lube it has gone in some of the way fine but then it starts to feel very dry.
He isn't my first partner and I'm not his first either. We don't use condoms cos I'm allergic to latex and I'm on the pill, plus we love each other and live together, we both work so although we are still young (both nearly 20) we could cope with a baby if the pill failed somehow.
2007-12-19 00:58:05 · update #1
You should both go to see a doctor, you have the early stages of the clap.
2007-12-19 08:15:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You being wet and with his juices don't know why this would happen to him. I'm very well endowed and when things are wet this has never happened to be even when we have sex 2 or 3 times straight. He should have been telling you how great you were.
2007-12-19 00:51:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If, by slightly better endowed you mean huge, then maybe you should use some lube. He could also try giving you oral so that you have an orgasm, which would help to relax you even more.
When women become aroused the vagina changes shape to allow deep penetration so I can only assume your bf has a monster in his pants.
2007-12-19 00:41:37 · answer #3 · answered by Gavin T 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sounds like he had a dry spot on his penis which does really hurt cause it pulls on the skin but once it gets lubed up it is good to go.
might be what happened if it is the only time it has happened
2007-12-19 01:32:30 · answer #4 · answered by blue03neon 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Slightly better endowed? Well mine is at least 12 inches but I dont use it as a Rule!!!!!!!
2007-12-20 12:22:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
does either of you have an yeast infection. Infection can cause some stinging. and yes both boys and girls can get yeast infections. And if not treated, you can pass it back to each other.
You can buy condoms that are latex free. I would use those.
2007-12-19 02:17:08 · answer #6 · answered by Bradygirl 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
the problem is all in the mind if wet on entry he will push it all the way up tell him to take is time and start slow and steady a bit more each time slow and easy to start with
2007-12-19 03:19:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if it was his first time then the skin could of torn its common if not get to a clinic
2007-12-22 23:23:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like he has the issue...not you! There's no reason for a stinging sensation.
2007-12-19 04:08:17 · answer #9 · answered by Tackle Box 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you could be not fully relaxed sounds silly but happens,is he circumcised? sorry to ask,but cured my similar problem!
2007-12-19 08:41:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋