how did you cope with it?
2007-12-19 00:18:06 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
AND WHY WERE YOU SO CRAZY ABOUT THIS PERSON??
2007-12-19 00:19:08 · update #1
the last time i was obsessed about some one was about a year ago. it was hard to cope with it because i became her best friend when i wanted much more. it sucked but you just have to deal with it. trust me it was the worst part of my life so far. she was the most beautifull girl ive ever talked to and i fell in love with her and after a year she ripped out my heart and threw it on the ground. as i said yeah it sucked by i learned to live with the fact that some people are just like that they will never feel for you the way that you feel for them.
2007-12-19 00:23:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am still attached to this person, but it's more like a sister type feeling I have nowadays. Coping: I distanced myself from them twice, though it saddened them the second time. They are very sweet, smart, honest, and think about some things the way I do, and a way others I have to see everyday do not. Unfortunately, I've seen that the ideas this person goes along with are the ones that make my life saddest and hardest, and that is where the obsessive part comes in. This person thinks I should do certain things I don't think I should do, that I think are more problematic.... Ah well. I began and tried some of it, but felt guilty. So...that is where another part of the obsessive thing happens; whenever I think about doing those things, this person enters the thoughts coz it was approved of by them, encouraged by them, helped by them, etc. Anybody else would tell me do differently....
2007-12-19 08:29:09 · answer #2 · answered by dumbuglyweirdo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's been about 9 years ago. I met this guy and he was gorgeous. He had these beautiful eyes with these long, dark eyelashes and his lips were amazing. And he was such a sweetie. I was crazy about him and he was crazy about me. We used to work together and when he quit I didn't even want to work there anymore. I used to call him like 10 times a day. Wow. I was a borderline stalker. LOL
But we split up after a few months. I cried some, but I got over him quickly. The reason I was so obsessed is because he was the rebound guy.
2007-12-19 08:27:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
About 7 years ago.
I didn't cope, I just gave into the obssession.
It drove me crazy 'cause it was a bit of a naughty relationship. A bit unconventional for some. I eventually had to end it which was not easy at all. =(
2007-12-19 08:21:51 · answer #4 · answered by mac 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nov 16- Nov 30, 2007. I kept myself busy with work, review and other fun things like answering YA so I would have no time for my mind to wander and I wouldn't start thinking about…. The more you keep your mind occupied with other things the less time you obsess about that someone.
2007-12-20 04:50:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In Oct/Nov. Distraction. Rationalization. Therapy.
2007-12-19 08:22:26 · answer #6 · answered by ~ luv sis 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
With my wife, when we first met, and still today... I coped with it by letting her know my real feelings, and taking the chance she felt the same. with no risk there is no reward. I was willing to be broken hearted for the chance she might be the one for me. Now we have been married 2 yrs yesterday and have a baby that will be 1yr old tomorrow.
2007-12-19 08:23:15 · answer #7 · answered by madwolf469 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
3 months ago. She knew how to push my buttons, and I didn't realize how to deal with my emotions. Too impulsive. I was treated for mental health and substance abuse and realized how screwed up my thought process was. I ended things with her, now she is obsessed. Not that I get satisfaction out of it, I wish she would leave me alone, girl is toxic.
2007-12-19 08:21:48 · answer #8 · answered by conor 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have quite an obsessive personality, so it happens frequently and can last for years.
2007-12-19 08:30:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
About 10 years ago.
2007-12-19 08:21:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋