im plannning to meet him on friday and have seen him on web cam and he tells me he loves me! should i trust him?
i know that he has lied about a few things but then again who doesnt lie on the internet
but im not sure whether to trust him enough to meet him
what do you think??
2007-12-17 20:57:47 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
we spoke on the phone and we r both 16
2007-12-17 21:04:44 · update #1
do it i did and she was. cool. i went near but she was with her friends u should go with your friends just in case
2007-12-18 02:41:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know everyone is telling you not to meet him but I disagree. People have so many assumptions about people over the internet and I dare not fall into that trap. I have been with my girlfriend for three years and we met over the internet and I have never been happier. We've met, and she is just as I hoped, wonderful. This does not go without saying that there are some creeps out there on the internet so when you meet him meet in a VERY public place and take someone with you. But yea,right on! Meet him and I hope yall continue to be together and have a happy and healthy relationship
2007-12-18 08:51:14 · answer #2 · answered by Whitney D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whether or not u decide to meet him or not is up to u but if u do then meet somewhere public like a pub or a cafe somewhere that u no very well and r likely to bump into some peeps that u no. try an take a couple of m8s along with u they don't av 2 meet him but they can sit in the same place and keep a watchful eye on him, DON'T GO ANY WHERE ALONE WITH HIM, try an stay in the same place all the time. If he loves u then he'll respect the fact that u want to meet on these terms and these terms only.
2007-12-17 21:05:08 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been talking to him? I met my boyfriend from internet dating. It took me about a month before I was ready to meet him. You can never be too cautious with internet dating because a person that can sweet talk you also can be a dangerous person. Only meet him if you have been chatting awhile and feel very comfortable doing so. If you have ANY doubts then dont meet yet. What were the things he lied about? I personally would never meet someone that lied. If they lied once they probably will lie again. No, not everyone lies online, I never did, and my boyfriend never lied to me either. If you do decide to meet him, make sure to meet him in a public place the first time. Drive your own ways, then meet at the public place. If he doesnt like that, then don't go out. Scary things can happen sadly.
2007-12-17 21:03:31 · answer #4 · answered by Alleykat 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Don't meet people over the internet and meet them. Have you ever thought of maybe it is a set up and he is going to be getting his friends to come and maybe kidnap you (then maybe do things to you afterwards)?
Don't trust people over the internet. I was caught up with boyfriends and meeting them over the internet. But I started thinking, if I do meet them what are the concequences and what can really happen?
You can easily be taken, he can easily hurt, he can easily do lots of things to you. But if you meet people person to person, you can have a vibe of whether they are the good kind or not.
Please, don't meet him. All the things he has told you over the internet could of been a lie. And yes it does make you feel good to be told that you are loved by another and you take compliments from him. But better be safe than sorry and not meet him.
(I am a teenage and this isn't an adult telling you this either...)
2007-12-18 01:01:07 · answer #5 · answered by Vasilisa 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Never meet anybody you've met over the internet! Trust me on this one, I've done it before and it always ends bad. They think that they can touch and feel. They get aggressive and it's quite nerve racking.
no matter times he's said he loves you and vice versa, how well do you really know him? Don't be so easy to trust either, it you want to meet him, it should in a well lit place with tons of witnesses and bring a friend who isn't studip enough to leave you two alone. Or bring a trusted adult if you're still going to meet him, but please don't! I'd hate to see yet another girl go missing or end up raped . . .
2007-12-17 23:23:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should, the internet is becoming more dangerous everyday, you don't know who you can trust, but if you must meet him, take someone with you and meet in a public place where you know they'll be lots of people, and take something to defend yourself, also if you have a cell phone take it, and tell atleast someone who's not going where you'll be, preferably a grown up, if you take your cell phone, to be safe, go to setings, then to location, and click on location on, this allows the police or 911 to locate you wherever you are alot of people don't kow about this setting but it works,and it could save your life, i know i sound paranoid i just don't want you gettin hurt, be safe, and careful
2007-12-18 01:31:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm experienced at this kinda thing so feel free to email me.
I'm 18 and I actually met my current boyfriend kinda through the net but not really because I added him from my friends myspace coz she went to college with him then we got chatting but anyway, if you meet him take a friend or cousin or sister. Just don't go alone.
2007-12-18 00:20:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Meeting him for the first time is just that. A first time meeting. Right now you are just virtual strangers. You only know what he tells you. If he's lying already, the relationship is doomed. You want someone who doesn't lie. You ask who DOESN'T lie on the internet. I'm one who doesn't lie. So not everyone is that dishonest. My advice is to start meeting people in the real world. At school, work, church, social gatherings, and so on.
2007-12-18 02:28:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
OK, first off, you say 'who doesn't lie on the internet'. Hello! Lots of people! Genuine people who don't lie in real life also don't lie on the internet.
Number two, he's not your boyfriend!!! He's a bloke you met on line. Who knows, he might become your boyfriend, but he isn't yet.
Finally, meet him if you want but meet him in a public place like a pub or cafe and make sure it's somewhere close to public transport so you can get home easily if you don't enjoy the evening. Don't go off travelling hundreds of miles to meet him or anything daft like that.
2007-12-17 21:06:38 · answer #10 · answered by SLF 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't trust him. He's lied to you before, there you go. Sure you've seen eachother and talked to eachother, that still doesn't really give you a reason to trust him. Did he really look and sound like a sixteen year old?
I say to call it off. Find someone close to home. This is just to keep you safe from online fakes. Rather be safe than sorry.
Take care.
Violet
2007-12-17 22:06:05 · answer #11 · answered by Violet 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋