like you r new to company and some colleague of yours ,who is also gud friends to all existing people is spreading news ,that you r going around with someone(boss,next day a colleague,then next day someone else) and everyday a new rumour?whomsoever u talk it is a new rumour next day for everybody to enjoy?and u know these things r floating around due to people reaction but u really cant prove that.what to do.
2007-12-17 19:51:10 · 15 answers · asked by misha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you really cant go yelling , that i am not like that, just be calm, let the time goes, if u r not doing such thing, people will ultimately know who is fake and who is true..
2007-12-17 20:07:17 · answer #1 · answered by Kassanovic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This happens in everyone who are popular. You don't worry. First try to track down this person. If your a black belt champ give him left and right. Just kidding. So as I was typing, try to find that person. And find out why this person is doing this. It could be because of jealousy or maybe if the person is of the opposite gender they might have a crush on you. So life is unpredictable. So don't worry too much. Such things are just conspiracies to upset you or gain ur attention. Ok. Try this. If it doesn't work, take the help of a trustworthy colleague. Ok. So chill.
2007-12-18 07:16:59 · answer #2 · answered by Rahul Dravid rocks!!!!!!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your chin up, mingle with some people closely, whenever there is a party attend it and start enjoying. I think you should have steady guy i mean from colleague circle or outside. In case situation does not improve look for a different job.
2007-12-18 06:37:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can Understand. coz even I have been through a similar situation like yours. Don't worry be like what you are. are you are new to the company, people will believe the existing people's words. But gradually you will also have some friends made there and people will know once they get to know you. You don't have to give **** about what others think about you.
Chill madi ;)
2007-12-18 04:02:11 · answer #4 · answered by kavya n 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let it bother you, people can smell fear and emabrassment...just ignore it and it'll go away like a bad smell. Plus they've got nothing else to do with their time. those kind of people live on gossip to make their own lives more enjoyable. Just enjoy the fact that you ARE better than them, because you know you are.
2007-12-18 04:09:57 · answer #5 · answered by tweak_a_freak 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When I go to market, there are so many people wants to sale and try to convince.
If i do not purchase it remains with whom ?
If i point out one finger towards some one the remaining four are towards me.
Look for the positive side of it.
2007-12-18 06:21:08 · answer #6 · answered by harish555 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could go to your boss and end this high school behavior...This does not make a good work environment and the company can be open to a lawsuit...
2007-12-18 04:13:43 · answer #7 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rumors are for back stabbing people and ruining thier reputation this is done by jealous ppl. who has nothing to do for rest of thier life.
2007-12-18 08:28:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right you are. Sometime the false is repeated so many times, it becomes truth. vice versa
2007-12-18 03:57:14 · answer #9 · answered by chidambaram k 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
juz ignore them and be like you are... the said people are everwhere... the reason because all of them r having jealous over you...
2007-12-18 04:06:56 · answer #10 · answered by gopinath 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋