I am 17 I know that is very young. But I met my boyfriend last june..2006. He lived in utah almost the whole time we were together and I live in arizona but we saw each other monthly. I love him very much but we have always had a rocky relationship. He has cheated on me in the past more than once..and so after the second time I left him and we saw other people for about five months and we were still very close friends and talked almost daily. This june, 2007, he moved to arizona with his brother and we got back together and decided to put the past behind us. He had to go back to utah for a week and ended up kissing his ex. I was devestated..but forgave him..again. I just recently found out that i am pregnant and when he heard this..he said he was moving back to utah. He says he wants to be together and mary me. But his ex lives with him..at his parents house and they are now "best friends". it is so hard for me to trust him..but i want to so much. we are falling apart and i need advice
2007-12-17 16:46:50 · 5 answers · asked by mags 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
AND i guess i forgot to mention that i have already decided to keep my baby. I am five months along and I can feel it kicking. I am so happy that I am having it and everyone i know is very supportive and very excited. My bf does very much want to be apart of the babys life and raise it equally. I'll be 18 when it's born He'll be 19. I guess all i really wan to know is how to just..fix us..so we can be together..we've been through so much..it's hard to let go.
2007-12-17 16:47:13 · update #1
Hunny, you really do not need a man like this. If your man is so unstable like this, I think it would be in the best interest for you and your baby. You don't want your kid to see you fighting over your bf cheating on you. If you really think it can work, then tell him he has to stay with you down there in arizona. If he can't put that much into the relationship then he is not worth it. It is not fair for him to have his ex living there while he is dating you. Been in such a similar situation. I am very happy you are keeping it, I wish you all the strenght in the world.
Could you move into his place/or can he move in with you?
2007-12-17 16:58:35 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course if it's just temporary and you both agree on the situation and you also both want the relationship last. Trust and faithfulness are the best for long distance relationships. Me and my husband still on long distance realtionship since we started our relationship 3 years ago and got married 2 years ago. It's hard but it still doing great. We just be with each other only 2 to 4 months every year but we still in love with each other and now we're making plans for us not to be separate again and have a child, if not this year, next year. And pray, it's also the BEST! Goodluck! =)
2016-05-24 11:20:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could:
* Ask him to move down to your town
* Move to Utah and take up residence with his family & ex (it will probably force the ex to move out)
* Get on with your own life, get a job, go to court and file for child support.
2007-12-17 17:45:03 · answer #3 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to live a "jerry springer show" lifestyle? there is an obvious lack of respect coming from him and an equal amount for yourself.you should demand the utmost respect from everybody(including yourself).if a man doesn't treat you as a lady then he's no man and not worth your time
2007-12-18 13:13:15 · answer #4 · answered by Scotter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got to get a job the both of yall and move together and be a family thats yall only problem yall just got to move closer to each other than every thing will be fixed
2007-12-17 16:59:42 · answer #5 · answered by fattyb1980 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋