I was never sure about it n when it was asked of me i gave it still not sure of when it was going to feel good..
Now knowing my partner really likes it..
will it get better?
2007-12-17 14:11:22 · 11 answers · asked by Ashes 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
It's nice to please your partner, but don't participate in any activity that you don't fully enjoy. It will only get better for you if you like it.
2007-12-17 14:16:46 · answer #1 · answered by k. booo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just because your partner enjoys something doesn't mean you have to. Some women really enjoy anal sex while others have no interest in it. If you don't enjoy it, don't keep doing it because it could cause other problems in your relationship. If you do continue, make sure to use plenty of lubrication to help reduce any pain there might be and use protection. The membranes in the anus are very thin and tear more easily, so if there is any possibility of an STD, it could still get transmitted to your partner. It might help if he goes slowly next time and starts by inserting one finger and then another to help acclimate you to it before penetrating you with his penis.
2007-12-17 14:27:49 · answer #2 · answered by pita4pres 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are the only one that can answer that question!!
But ill give you some tips. The key is to relax, don't get all tense. Also make sure your partner takes it easy. It should be done at a slower pace until you are completely comfortable and can enjoy it. Have fun with it and let you hands wonder. It's something I have def learned to enjoy!
2007-12-17 14:38:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 22:09:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was skeptical at first myself when my husband said we should try it, and surprisingly I had amazing MULTIPULE orgasms!
It felt a little odd at first, kind of strange, but then it was good, but its not good to do it to often, I do it once every week or every other week. its super pleasurable for myself and my husband, but its your choice, if you do then make sure you have lubrication, if you don't like it just stop if you do then enjoy :)
2007-12-17 14:32:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it all depends on the girl. i mean i really dont plan on having anal sex but some girls do. i really think if u dont want to then dont. you shouldnt be pressured into anything that you dont feel comfortable doing
2007-12-17 14:17:48 · answer #6 · answered by wv_girl2008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it anymore if you don't like it or don't feel comfortable. To answer your next question, if you want to try it again yes, it will get better and better and better. : )
2007-12-17 14:20:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ah!! i could only have anal with a guy i REALLY loved, that sounds soooooooo horrifying, like the most un pleasurable experience ever..
:-0
2007-12-17 17:02:13 · answer #8 · answered by sunshinegirl802 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about the feces?
Someone that doesn't understand what they are doing
you or him can cause some serious injury to your anal
sphincter! Ever heard of fecal incontinence, lacerated
anal sphincter or mega rectum!
2007-12-17 14:17:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
Well, my first time sucked.... He did not use any lubercation. Now its fine, and I like it, but use the lubercation......And relax. Good luck!
2007-12-17 14:15:15 · answer #10 · answered by Bradygirl 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋