I really needs some advice.. I cant stop worrying about this.. I started to become friends with a coworker in 1999. We shared alot in common.. Our kids played together etc.. She was going thru a divorce and I was there for her.. we remained friends for several more years but I felt the only thing we had in common was that our kids were friends. our lives were on two different paths. I am married and obviously she was not anymore and she went out all the time ; which was not my way of life. she had dated several guys and each time her little boy got attached to them. anyways.. just 3 years ago--- I was having some marital problems and confided in her (my best friend right) and she told her current boy friend everything that was going on.. he came back and told my husband which created some marital problems for us.. my husband and I worked through these issues.. however then my husband didnt like her anymore. I made some bad choices in repeating information about her current affair with
2007-12-17 14:01:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
about her fling and now she wont talk to me because she thought I was only getting her back for everything that went on before.. I have tried to talk to her before and she said that I obviously wasnt a good friend which I regret what happened from both sides.. and ive typed her emails to apologize to her and I truly am sorry-- we still havent talked.. do I let it go since Ive said my regrets and given my apologies and its been 3years? or do I send something else and try to fight for the friendship? I truly believe in my heart that true friendship doesnt die and if this were a real true friendship-- we would have seen through the differences and moved on as friends?
2007-12-17 14:07:39 · update #1
Ur thinking and logic is correct..
she did not value the friendship as u did.. nor does she have the same morals and principals.. she is most likely jealous u saved Ur marriage and she couldn't..
move on and don't look back.. u did all Ur could as a good friend..
it was/is her loss not Ur's..
good luck.. happy holidays
2007-12-17 19:04:07 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Blondie ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriages end in divorce, so why not friendship end too? I don't see how friendship has to be more rock solid than marriages. Since it's been 3 yrs, I strongly suggest you move on and forget about her.
2007-12-17 17:10:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where was the friendship here? she created marriage problems for you and she is upset that you opened your mouth,whos she kidding. she was never a friend or she wouldnt of told your business. move on! this time keep your personal business to your self!
2007-12-17 14:53:14 · answer #3 · answered by shebae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she really is a true friends of yours she will give you a chance. but since you extended your apologies and still nothing happens, i believe you should move on.. you can live without her right? who is she anyway? she is not the one that feeds you right? so you need not to chase for her and asked for forgiveness all your life. move on!
2007-12-17 14:20:26 · answer #4 · answered by ladyleigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
KEEP YOUR BUSINESS TO YOURSELF!
If it is so important to tell someone tell your husband he is suppose to be your best friend.
"Sometimes" women are jealous and become overjoyed when things are going wrong in a friends relationship.
Next thing you know your best friend is your exes new Mrs. catch my drift!
You learned a lesson: not tell her a** nothing again...I would continue to be her friend but with a whole new set of boundaries.
2007-12-17 14:13:01 · answer #5 · answered by mizznini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋