I need some hope?

Question

I lost a baby though miscarriage back in September I can't seem to get past it I sat and cry and feel like I will never and or not meant to have any more kidsI know this is not a question but how many of you concieved after a loss.Please I need hope

Answer 1

I'm sorry for your loss. I can relate I had a miscarriage a couple of years ago. It took me a while to get over it as well. You will have another child, I know because I just had my first child in Oct. If it helps, give to the kids across the country that send u a picture of the child u adopt or go to the build a bear workshop and make a bear in rememberance of the child u lost.

Answer 2

Listen, a miscarriage is not your fault. A lot can happen to a developing baby. As an example that you asked for, my mother had 5 children. I didn't find out until I was older that somewhere in there, she had a miscarriage. Out of 6 pregnancies, she had 5 healthy wonderful babies. My great great grandma had 12 kids, for crying out loud, and she had several miscarriages. Unfortunately, things like this happen. If you're really worried about miscarrying again, consider adoption. Not only would you be able to help a child who needs a family, but you'd get a healthy baby.

Cheers

Answer 3

I also have lost 2 babies this year. I am sorry to hear of your loss. Unfortunately, there is no way to get over it. the only thing that I have found is to talk to others who have experienced this too. There is a good, free website called justmommies.com There you can find and talk to others who have lost a baby. And those who are trying to conceive again or even have concieved. It has helped me make it through the hard days.
Take each day at a time and remember you are not alone in this.

Answer 4

I am sorry for your loss. I too miscarried in September and I just found out on Friday that I was pregnant. I felt the same way as you, I'd cry randomly and fall into deep bouts of depression. Please have hope, your day will come. My boyfriends mother has 5 children and her youngest is like her little sidekick. Before she had her youngest, she had a miscarriage at 4 months. She always told me after I miscarried that everything happens for a reason.. she told me that if she had never had the miscarriage, she'd never have her youngest daughter and she couldn't imagine her life without her. Good luck hunnie.

Answer 5

I am sorry for your loss. September was not that long ago. You can be in morning for as long as it takes you to understand that God gave you a baby and God can take it back too. You do not know the reason He did, but rest assured that God does what is right in His own eyes. He knows why things happen and if you trust in Him, He will always give you more than He takes because He loves you and wants you to trust in Him for everything.

Answer 6

Just pray! Its not the end of the world you will and can have kids. my Sister in law had 6 miscarriages before she got pregnant and she had triplets. so don't give up on hope. there is always a brighter light at the end of each tunnel. and remember......................
God only makes happy endings. If it's not happy then its not the end!
-Good luck!

Answer 7

Don't pay any attention to that insensitive response!!
I know its hard but if you truly desire to have a family...get back right up there. And remember you have other options if you are unable to (naturally)!!
When you get your lovely family NEVER forget the loss; it helps when you talk about it (give the little one a name)...thats what my brother did, and now they are past it all

I wish you the best

Answer 8

You may be going through a depression,so I suggest you see a counselor....Hope is something you have inside you already,but your blocking it with fear....

Answer 9

just ignore angela h that was rude but im sorry for your loss