I never had feelings for another guy before, he started to flirt and now I can't stop thinking about him. Is it because i'm young and inexperienced in relationships? Am I bi or turning gay? I have never had a serious relationship before. I'm confused. I always liked women. Am I going to hell for this? I need help, I can't stop thinking about him & we barely know eachother.
2007-12-17 13:05:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'm almost 18.
2007-12-17 13:12:37 · update #1
You need to figure out exactly what it is you're feeling. Is it an attraction to him sexually or is it just an attraction to his personality? Whatever it is, don't feel pressured into doing anything you're not completely comfortable with. It's a good possibility that you have a deep, instantaneous connection with this person and a great friendship could develop. Always be honest with yourself and others about how you feel.
As far as going to hell...liking someone for who they are never came up as a hell-worthy offence as far as I know! =o)
2007-12-17 16:59:11 · answer #1 · answered by bzyboi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be hormones, could be that you're gay, could be that you're bi, could be that you just have strong feelings for this one guy. Whatever it is, you're not gonna goto Hell for it, don't panic =) Just let it play out and see what happens, don't worry about putting yourself into a box or a category.x
2007-12-17 21:36:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Can we get your age? That would help.
2007-12-17 21:09:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur fine.
it's just ur mind playing w/ u
just in case, talk to a parent or some1
2007-12-17 21:13:40 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Elle the Model♥ 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No one can "make" you do anything you don't want to.
2007-12-17 21:10:57 · answer #5 · answered by dude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that is wrong but if u are that way maybe he can since it and that is how u are falling for him
2007-12-17 21:13:15 · answer #6 · answered by blue64_us 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋