Whats the best way to deal with catty girls ?

Question

im 17, and joined a new youthgroup, this one girl is really rude and asked me if i was doing drugs ( i dont ) but there are guys there too. im homeschooled too.

i think i should ignore it and smile, just not care, im working on that, how do you deal with mean girls ?

im not conceited, but i think im gorgeous, as i do with every other person, we are all pretty, you know

Answer 1

When somebody asks if you do drugs the correct response is "No. Why? Are you out of Meth?"

Answer 2

a million. She did no longer propose it and truthfully purely has low self-worth. you at the instant are not in charge for this so which you mustn't think of two times approximately it. do no longer attempt to shelter your self or spend any time thinking approximately what she reported. She's have been given multiple detrimental potential and you mustn't take any of that into your self. 2. forget approximately it. Catty ladies would be catty ladies. once you're a great guy or woman then this is all you're able to stress approximately. Being notably isn't your fault and it is not something to be embarrassed approximately.

Answer 3

First, I think home-schooled kids are at a disadvantage when they finally do something with new people.

Anyway,

Your being conceited has nothing to do with the question unless you went right up to the girl and told her you were gorgeous.

Also, when you start doing something with a new group who has been together for a long while, there is going to be a time period where you are not going to fit in. You cannot just jump into people's circle of friends. You need to earn it.

Keep your space for a while, and as dumb as this sounds, be yourself. No one likes a fake person.

Also, you should not act like you don't care, like don't blow them off, just rationally answer their questions. They are just trying to get to know you and find out what kind of person you are. Just let everything happen as it does. It'll come together in time.

As for the guys, don't act easy! A guy may like the girl who will put out, but in the long run, they grow out of it and want to settle into a relationship--friend or more.

All in all, be yourself, and earn your place.
You can't push yourself upon other people.
It'll happen as it does.

Good luck! I know it can be hard to be the new person... but it's great once you aren't!

Answer 4

when girls are being catty like that it usually means they are jealous or just plan annoying haha
just dont even give her the time or day when she opens her mouth
and ur right ignoring her is the best think u can do

probabily because your homeschooled ur not used to people being rude to you. you just need to get a back bone and when she gets up in ur face to much, then throw a nausty comment back at her or get phycial and back her @$$ up into a wall haha.

and like i said she is jealous
and she probabily hates it that u are confident in urself
which is a great thing to have!
so dont sweat it to much
just let her rot in her jealously

hoped this helped =D
and good luck
peacee <3 =)

Answer 5

Well, it's been awhile since I've been in High School, but the best thing to do is smile and ignore them. Sadly for them this is the highlight of thier lives.

In a year or so when they go to college thier silly little games will get them nowhere, and they will have trouble adapting, because thier looks and lack of popularity will be of little use to them. You will end doing far better than any of them.

Answer 6

So you're trying to say that the girl is picking on you? Well the best thing you can do is be sweet to everyone. I have the same problem at times but since I'm so cool with people I barely have probs with other girls. Try being friends with them and don't flirt with other guys cuz then those girls will start saying that you're a you-know-what.
So chillax and be yourself and try being friends with those girls. They'll like you eventually. Takes time.

Answer 7

Having been around catty girls/women a lot, I'd have to say that ignoring them is the WORST thing to do, as they will start stuff up about you, say you're stuck up when you're just too mature to play their silly social game. Some women are just witchy-poos, and you have to try to get along anyway. You'll figure it out....

Answer 8

In high school, I used to thrive on taking down mean girls ever since one tried to f**k with me. If you ignore her, she'll take that as a sign of weekness. But saying something might be counterproductive unless you have a ballsy personality.

Just say something to throw her off.

Are you on drugs? Hmm. I don't know. Or just laugh your a** off. She'll feel and look stupid.

Answer 9

Just ignore her and don't be around her. Girls are like that and there is really nothing you can do. It's just her own insecurities coming out. Just be happy with who you are and hang around people who make you feel good, not ones who bring you down =]

Answer 10

just ignore her, thats the best way to deal, theres this evil little girl in my grade, and if i get in her way, a whole wave of rumors about me goes around the school. when this girl is around, just stay away, or try to befriend her, there may be hope, she could have just been joking.
if she truly is mean to you, then just stay away and have fun! dont let her bring you down

Answer 11

Tell her that if she thinks you're doing drugs, maybe it's because she's hiding an ugly secret and wants to distract everyone by making them look at you.