She says she is in love. And she appears in no means stupid. She is academically accomplished and analytically competent. She is a careful person with people, so she would like to believe her choice is correct. And she says, "I understand my partner wants to have sex with other girls and it is fine with me. I have no urge myself for other men, but i will join my partner in his sexual acts if I want. He cannot have sex in the home we share and i trust him when he says he will not pursue any further relation with those girls than just sex." It will be noted that he does not want to hire prostetutes, but meet willing girls for his sex. It will also be noted that marriage/religious answers won't be helpful, so an analytical answer is preferred. The relationship is considered a serious one versus a fling. Answer in terms of right/wrong, what is right/wrong, what is "just sex", etc. And also, is this relationship possible in terms of happiness. Assume both sides speak truly.
2007-12-17 11:59:17 · 3 answers · asked by Cwisteeny Baby 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I think that it will lead to trouble in the long run. This is a very unequal relationship...you are monogamous while he is polygamous? That sort of imbalance can lead to low self-esteem on your part and lack of respect for you on his part. In addition he's exposing himself (and you and any children you might have) to sexually transmitted diseases.
If he cannot commit to a monogamous relationship then you two should not be living together and should not consider yourself a couple.
2007-12-17 12:20:51 · answer #1 · answered by krinkn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to know how I feel toward the woman, or whether it's right or wrong and what is just sex?
How I feel: She is stupid.
Right/wrong. If that's what they want to do, it's a free country and legal.
What is just sex: They'd have to define it for their own purposes.
2007-12-17 13:58:48 · answer #2 · answered by Marina 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds nutty to me.
2007-12-17 12:12:54 · answer #3 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋