2007-12-17 11:12:17 · 24 answers · asked by hezekiahsmom 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Senior Citizens
I heard it get's a lot better in your 30s for women.
2007-12-17 11:18:19 · update #1
Depends on how you look at it...:-)
In my 20's it was OK...no grand thing...I was inexperienced and so were mates.
In my 30's it was adventuresome...learned a lot..and finally had a partner who taught me what 'making love' was all about.
In my 40's I had FREEDOM to make love in ways that satisfied ME and to know enough to know how to satisfy HIM.
In my 50's I was seasoned...still able to do all the above and coupled with wisdom and better understanding of men, I made a formidable partner.
I am now in my 60's - the knowledge is still there - the desire is still there - the ability is still there...alas, the partner pool is dwindling! LOL BUT it is possible!
I had an uncle who was active into his 80's. My parents were happily active until my Dad died at age 73
Older people lose many inhibitions also and if one thing doesn't 'work' as well as before they were more willing to find options :-)
2007-12-17 11:22:37 · answer #1 · answered by sage seeker 7 · 16⤊ 1⤋
Well, is 44 old? That's when I remarried, and he is the man of my dreams! So, it was immediately better! Eleven years later, it just keeps on getting better. I'm sure there are many reasons. First, we are crazy about each other. Secondly, we are more experienced, and let's face it, you also lose all that modesty and shyness and are more likely to just come out and say, Hey, let's try this! There PROBABLY aren't kids living under your roof any more, so you can be more uninhibited and spontaneous! Next, you get to the point where you are no longer trying so hard to maintain a certain image, and so you know when you can just say, "I'm getting tired!" And last, you've got more money now, so you can buy all those cute sexy outfits! Go for it!
2007-12-18 12:52:17 · answer #2 · answered by Mountain Girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That guy or woman would have been on a waiting checklist for an prolonged time, years even. This guy or woman has in all probability paid countless tax into the equipment, why could they not have scientific care? The brains of deceased transsexuals have been analysed and the outcomes confirmed that some men have woman brains and vice versa, it extremely is a real situation which would be dealt with if mandatory for the guy to have some high quality of existence.
2016-10-11 12:07:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That all depends on the individual. I found that sex was getting in the way of my freedom & when I decided to break one bad habit, I had to break others in order to achieve success. I conquered alcohol, drugs, cigarettes, lieing, stealing & sex. It's really quite nice to be free of it all. I have fond & not-so-fond memories of the many adventures I have experienced in my lifetime. It all stopped just before I hit 50 (actually I think it was 46, now that I think about it). I made a wish & it came true. Be careful what you ask for...you just might get it! I've had enough sex to know that it's an over-rated activity that is exploited in order to make people spiritually weak!
2007-12-17 17:31:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
It depends on your partner. I know it's better for me, now. When I was much younger and newly married, I was still a virgin, raised Catholic. I was very sheltered. My husband taught me everything there was to know about the physical act of sex. He was very patient. I didn't like sex. I dealt with it, because, as my Mother reminded me, it was my duty as his wife. As times changed and the children got older, I sought out help. I began to experiment with my body, really got to know it. Found the places that made me feel good. I was raised to believe all this was taboo! When I reached my early 40's, I bloomed! I was like a teenager. My body was in the best shape it had ever been in. I was confident about who I am. Sex got better. My husband said it was worth the wait! LOL!!! Now he is 60 and I'm 53. We are both happily slowing down. We are very comfortable where we are...34 years and going strong.
2007-12-17 11:22:58 · answer #5 · answered by janice 6 · 11⤊ 0⤋
Sage Seeker hit it on the head.... Head? Who said Head?
Except for the dwindling partners thing. I choose to be very selective.. maybe tooo selective but I have found out that as you get to know someone, the sex gets better. One Night Stands might be exciting but haven't done that in a loooong time.
ALSO, I've discovered that for women especially ones who know what they are doing, sex is an emotional thing and if a guy goes over that line, you better be prepared to stay a while.
I think that for me I' am much more patient and am not in such a hurry as I was i my younger days. I enjoy the journey, not as much the destination.
In most everything nowadays, I found that the things that you don't like, do them quickly, the thing that you enjoy, do them slooooowly.
:+))
2007-12-17 11:38:01 · answer #6 · answered by Dan Bueno 4 · 14⤊ 1⤋
SEX! What's sex??? Bring some around
and I'll tell you if it's better than.....
how old did you say? 30 OH MY GOD.
My youngest kids is older than that.
I'll have to ask her what it's like.
2007-12-17 15:03:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hate to tell you but 30 is not a senior citizen. It depends on your partner and attitude to if it gets better.
2007-12-17 13:44:12 · answer #8 · answered by answerlady 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends more on the physical condition of the people involved rather than age. But the emotional side is much more satisfying when you are older and have been together longer.
2007-12-17 12:00:21 · answer #9 · answered by Aloha_Ann 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Will fill you in when I get older -- women get more into it when we're 30 eh ? think I just turned 32.
2007-12-18 00:59:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋