umm yeah im learning and i dont want to ask my parents
2007-12-17 11:11:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In the strictest term; you are a virgin until you've had sexual intercourse with the member of the opposite sex.
The whole narrow definition of virginity is in desperate need of a rewrite. Who better to do it than the first generation of new millennium teens? What does "losing your virginity" mean to you? Is it a state of mind or a specific act? Is it something that can be taken from you, or does it only count if you willingly give it away? When does "fooling around" end and "having sex" begin?
When considering "the new definition", think about these situations and ask yourself how they fit in to the meaning of virginity.
Is someone who is raped or molested no longer a virgin?
Is actual intercourse the only act that counts when determining ones virginity?
If you willingly engage in other intimate sexual acts but do not have intercourse, is it fair to still consider yourself a virgin?
How would you define losing your virginity if you were/are homosexual or bisexual?
Is being a virgin based on your feelings, what you do, or is it a combination of both?
Is there an emotional component to losing your virginity, meaning if you have sex but don't feel anything is different about you, does it count?
Is the current definition of virginity, and all the social stigma attached to it, biased toward girls? Is this right?
Does the current definition of virginity exclude homosexuals? Is this right?
Is virginity subjective (based on how the individual views themselves and what they do) or objective (how the situation is viewed by others on the outside)?
hope this helps...cheers
2007-12-17 16:51:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A virgin is someone who hasn't had sex yet. Virginity is the state of innocence or inexperience assigned to people who have not yet had sexual intercourse.
If you don't want to ask your parents, ask a thing called a dictionary. They have answers too.
2007-12-17 19:15:42 · answer #2 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 8⤊ 0⤋
Being a virgin means that you've never had sexual intercourse before. When you have sex, you lose your virginity. You lose the pureness that you've had.
2007-12-17 19:15:23 · answer #3 · answered by Megan 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Look it up on Wikipedia then
2007-12-17 19:15:50 · answer #4 · answered by Sandy Ego 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Um don't know I lost mine somewhere!
2007-12-17 19:14:37 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Gotta Luv Pure Evil ♥ 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Virginity means you are PURE, devirgined means you're no longer :)
2007-12-17 19:14:28 · answer #6 · answered by NY0120 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
pure
2007-12-17 19:24:41 · answer #7 · answered by LivingMyLife 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is when the person has not has sex yet.
2007-12-17 19:14:38 · answer #8 · answered by lonelynconfuzed(gar) 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
when u havent popped ur cherry babes
2007-12-17 19:15:35 · answer #9 · answered by sarah71397 4 · 1⤊ 4⤋
virgin means not penetrated by a penis or other object.
2007-12-17 19:17:53 · answer #10 · answered by hotmoma_37 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋