I have the beast wife she’s beautiful, smart, and funny and we two wonderful kids. I love the time we spend to gather. But last year I cheated on her I fill like crape and I can’t stop thinking about her and how I hurt her. How can I show her I’m sorry and that I love her and she mines she mines the world to me
2007-12-17 11:01:48 · 14 answers · asked by Du.Ko 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have the best wife she’s beautiful, smart, and funny and we two wonderful kids. I love the time we spend to gather. But last year I cheated on her I fill like crape and I can’t stop thinking about her and how I hurt her. How can I show her I’m sorry and that I love her and she my whole world to me
2007-12-17 11:37:45 · update #1
You have a beast wife?? I'm sorry!
2007-12-17 11:05:02 · answer #1 · answered by Kat 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Have you thought about letting her really telling you how she feels like at marriage counseling there had to be a problem in the marriage that would make you stop believing in it long enough to cheat....Coming from a woman that knows how this feels I can tell you it takes a big strong person to forgive and to FORGET! What you did is wrong and it really damaged the trust issue in the marriage you need to build it back and if your honest in what you say it may take an eternity to do this but listen to her let her have her time dealing with your mistake and be there for her no matter what. Men do not understand that when you cheat on us you are saying we are not satisfying you or making you happy enough, she has to get her self confidence back and esteem. Tell her everyday that you love her even if that day is hell on earth she deserve that much! GOOD LUCK!
2007-12-17 19:08:16 · answer #2 · answered by Meg<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First start off by telling her exactly what you're telling us. Tell her how sorry you are. Do what ever you can to make her feel special and to trust you again. Something like that needs time to heel so give her a little space but not to much. If you really love her the way you say you do let her know that by not only telling her but showing her. That's all you can do and if she forgive all else will fall into place. Good luck.
2007-12-17 19:13:21 · answer #3 · answered by tc22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your wife is a beast who mines the world to you.
Cheating is a part of life. I think many more people do it than anyone realises. At the end of the day you came back to her didn't you. What is she complaining about?
If my wife cheated, i wouldn't like it, but I'd get over it as just human weakness. I have those weaknesses as well - just a bit of fun when all is said and done.
2007-12-17 19:12:01 · answer #4 · answered by Captain Chaos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have thought about that before you cheated. She's a darn good wife if she forgave you. Go get counseling and show her you're really sorry and not just sorry you got caught.
2007-12-17 19:06:30 · answer #5 · answered by peaches6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regain her trust and do not cheat on her ever again! Prove to her how sorry you are by treating her like a queen and giving her love and respect that she deserves!
2007-12-17 19:05:51 · answer #6 · answered by Txgirl23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't over do it. that's the first rule. buying her lots of gifts will make her feel like you are paying her to be your wife. just talk to her, tell her EVERYTHING about the affair and about how you feel. it wouldn't hurt to NICELY point out how it would hurt the kids if you got divorced. but don't push the issue.
2007-12-17 19:05:42 · answer #7 · answered by littlewatley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well show her this post and she'll see how much ur thinking about her cuz ur spelling words wrong and using the wrong words in spots. So She'll know off that!
2007-12-17 19:06:27 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Gotta Luv Pure Evil ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your wife is the beast, does it make you a beauty then?
2007-12-17 19:18:56 · answer #9 · answered by Sandy Ego 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she shouldn't forgive you!
ppl like u dont deserve women like us.
mine cheated on me, I forgave him, and he still didnt change! and now he's out the door !
2007-12-17 19:06:57 · answer #10 · answered by Hard Candy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋