2007-12-17 10:59:47 · 29 answers · asked by joe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No,it means your an individual.
2007-12-17 11:01:50 · answer #1 · answered by josh 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm not quite sure what you mean..but I wanted to give you some advice anyway..maybe the people you're interested in aren't right for you;try venturing out and looking at new people. Either that or maybe be more open about what you want,what you're looking for and you'd be surprised at what will happen. I don't know you,but I'm pretty sure you're not a bad person..
2007-12-17 11:04:31 · answer #2 · answered by juceejuju 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No - I have the same problem and went to counseling to find out and then realized that I just am not like the people in the town I live in and that I will be OK in a city so I am moving on. Sometimes, who you are does not relate to who they are and it does not mean either is wrong. It means there are differences that cannot be overcome and you must seek others like you somewhere else.
2007-12-17 11:04:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do these people have something in common with you? Are you interested in what they think, or do you just like to hang around? You need to be interesting to be around people who are interesting, etc. Not saying you aren't, but you need to bring something of value to the friendship. Make a journal and try to figure what you are doing in the situation. If there isn't anything there, maybe you are trying to be friends with the "wrong" people.
2007-12-17 11:04:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anna P 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hardly. But you may want to look to why you are interested in these people in the first place. Do they have an agenda? Do you?
Sometimes people do not want to invest the time to establish a new relationship - be it friendship or something romantic. Keep that in mind.
(aside: check out the link. It is geared to children but I think it holds true to adults)
2007-12-17 11:07:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not at all , it just means the people dont know a great person when they see one. I get on with anyone as long as they aint snotty or feel sorry for themselves. Ignore them , plenty more friends to be out there mate.
2007-12-18 01:16:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look on the bright side you may just be a bad judge of character. And all those people you aren't interested in are the real goodies you passed on.
2007-12-17 12:41:26 · answer #7 · answered by Vash 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are just like me.
from all the years of my 5th to 10th grade, the only person i could call a freind was just "1". probably because my personalty never matched others even i tried hard, only to be found that i am not intersted in that, especially when i over do it. for example: i never curse or use curse word in my every sentence ,so i never grew liking to any one; later on i seperated my self, almost from every one and i became the grumy of the school and i started hating every one i stared judging every one untill i met my "freind" who opened my eyes and afterwards a girl from india challenged me (no one challenged me because well i was like the opressor, the guy who was allways right, and was useless to argue because he was the one who will win anyways) so no one dared even to talk behind my back or even talk to me, but that girl made me better understand that i is the realistics of people and how she had to change and adjust, which i refuse i did , but addmitted that i was wrong when i looked back how really i was. any ways i am glad to be back almost, it's just that the old me was a shy guy who didn't knew any better and my new me is the one who gets to right point, mean and smarter(not rude), but i am afraid to go back when i realized if i go back every one will know i am gay.... and now i cannot be my self because of this delusion of my self i had created, this night mare you might say, this idea of seperation, and this world i dono whish to live because i am embarce, i am afraid of being rejected and i am depresed that i may kill my self, and now i am more likely to seperate my self form every one, since now i canot be my self. don't make the same mistake i did by not being who you are. ps: i was gay since before my story began
2007-12-17 11:22:10 · answer #8 · answered by silouz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you seek people that are not worthy of being your friends, Just be yourself, put on a big smile and friends will seek you! Sometimes the coolest people dont have a lot of friends because everyone figures they already have a lot of friends! Good luck and dont stop being nice!
2007-12-17 11:03:51 · answer #9 · answered by No One 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Joe I'm in the same boat, people seem intimidated of me
Joe you're not a bad person, some people are not interested in making new friends or meeting new people.
I've been in the same situation
2007-12-17 11:03:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. You are probably a better person than they are. They would not feel comfortable around you. Keep looking,good friends are hard to find, but you will. Good luck. And Merry Christmas.
2007-12-17 11:05:43 · answer #11 · answered by mtchndjnmtch 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋