Should I tell her that I recently got an STD from some girl I was with? She wants to have sex sometimes but I don't want to give it to her and just keep playing like I'm tired all the time.
2007-12-17 10:55:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
YES NOW!!!!!
2007-12-17 10:58:11 · answer #1 · answered by sarah71397 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
why did you cheat in the first place. If there was a reason that you cheated then there is a reason that you weren't faithful. Take yourself on a long walk and think about your situation. do you LOVE your wife and want to stay with her or do you want a divorce. As to giving your wife the STD then use condoms. You will have to tell her sooner or later and sooner is better off in the long run.
2007-12-17 19:01:16 · answer #2 · answered by Karen A 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Start being a little honest with yourself, why would you cheat anyway? A man who loves his wife doens't just do these type of things. If you're not in love, maybe you're better off divorced and a SWINGER! Go to a doctor and get it cleared up, then tell her! Or the other way around.
2007-12-17 19:10:38 · answer #3 · answered by NY0120 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First thing u should do is see a doctor, get it cleared up. Stop cheating on ur wife and be honest not only with her but urself ( is the marriage over? ) ask urself that. If ur not happy keep it moving and stop holding her hostage. The time to act is now, man up my friend.
2007-12-17 19:02:30 · answer #4 · answered by pokvet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure it wasn't your wife that gave you the STD? Maybe she's whoring around, too.
2007-12-17 19:12:52 · answer #5 · answered by allforthepussy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! You shouldn't have even gone behind her back and done that in the first place... How would you feel in her position? Finding out your spouse had sex with another person is something harsh.
2007-12-17 18:59:53 · answer #6 · answered by Helloooo 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
YES! And then get you BOTH to a doctor!! Then you might as well get a divorce since you obviously don't want to be in a monogamous, committed relationship!
2007-12-17 19:02:15 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Sweet♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should tell her.
The longer you wait to tell her, the more it's going to hurt when she eventually finds out somehow.
2007-12-17 19:13:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. It will open a discussion that is obviously long over due. Looks like you got what you deserved.
2007-12-17 19:00:02 · answer #9 · answered by purplewaterhorse 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You best tell her. you can either protect her from getting it or at least give her a fighting chance. the poor women is probably crying herself to sleep thinking that she is fat and ugly.
Pay the piper mr man
2007-12-17 18:58:56 · answer #10 · answered by live4logan 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Tell her. Secrets like that you can't hide forever.
2007-12-17 18:59:46 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋