My last question wasn't exactly clear for some people... My friends don't seem to care about me anymore and are so negative about EVERYTHING, we get in a fight almost 2 times a month and they make me depressed and I feel like a bad person when I am with them. I need new friends, how do I let go of them and not making it a big deal.
2007-12-17 10:52:12 · 9 answers · asked by Heidi S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
first u need new friends. just find some people and stir up a convo. even just start off by saying oh those shoes are cute or like do u have a hair scrunchie i can borrow? but oh itsd ur a guy then say whos ur fave team or like woah nice play in pe or something. once u get ur new friends, then just slowly let go of ur old ones. when they call up and ask to go to the movies, tell them oh i cant im hanging out with _____ tomarrow. u dont even have to be hanging with _____ or not. then just everytime they call make up an excuse. then just stop talking to them as much in person. just say like hi oh wait im supposed to meet ______ right now catch ya later!
oh and once yall arent as CLOSE as u used to be, maybe then the fighting will stop. sometimes if friends hang out a little too much then they can get into arguments and crap more often. if the arguments seam to stop more and more the less yall hang out, then maybe you dont have to let go of your old friends compleatly.
♥-hallie
2007-12-17 11:01:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stop hanging out with them and if they don't realise that you have moved on and they ask tell them why and how they made you feel they might try and change and be better then you can stay friends or they might get mad whatever happens just be ready
2007-12-17 11:02:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stop talking to him as much. if the two of u arent getting along maybe u shouldnt be friends
2007-12-17 14:45:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop talking to them as much and make new friends
2007-12-17 10:56:18 · answer #4 · answered by blitzmoney94 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just gradualy start hanging out with them less and try to make new freinds and when you find people who you like to hang out with stop hanging out with your old "freinds" thats useually the best way.
2007-12-17 10:56:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
slowly start moving away from them, and start interacting with other people.
2007-12-17 10:56:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should stop talking to them and make new friends.
-HeartBrokenForever *(Diane N)*
2007-12-17 10:59:19 · answer #7 · answered by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone twice as fun
2007-12-17 10:55:53 · answer #8 · answered by tha 1 n only 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try other friends
2007-12-17 10:58:56 · answer #9 · answered by LOVE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋