ive been with my boyfriend for a year. we havent had se.x yet, but weve done everytihng else. the only thing i havent done with him is give him oral/ a blow~~job. I told him i would when hang out with him this weekend. But i find the whole thing gross, however i wanna give him one because he fills my desires soo well and i wanna give him something in return..im afraid that ill mess up or something...and im just afraid of the overally "putting his ___in my mouth. But i wanna do it. So how exactly do i do it and how can i make it perfect...i dont want it to be too hardcore or anything..i just want it to feel amazing to him but i dont wanna like shove the thing down my throat...id rather just use my tongue..or will i look like an idiot ? Help please? and im 17 years old.
2007-12-17 10:28:02 · 10 answers · asked by rizzybaby12345 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
believe it or not you really can't screw it up unless you use your teeth or bite it. he won't care how it's done and it really won't take long
2007-12-17 10:36:53 · answer #1 · answered by mp3 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
im 16 as well and waited 4 months,, my first time was super scarry haha i was so nervous i didnt want to do it wrong but i was honest with him and told him i had never done it be4 and he halped me out and told me what he liked,,he woked me through it and that helped ALOT..i was a little sloppy the first time but iv gotten better it just takes practice and if u really like this guy just talk abt it talking helps alot..and watch out for the pre *** lol and watch out for ur teeth
2016-05-24 10:10:07 · answer #2 · answered by garnet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to shove it down your throat. Use your tongue and insert into your cheek is usually good enough. Your hands can take care of the rest. Just make sure he's clean first...you could even take a shower together and do it then - that might help with the ick-factor for you.
2007-12-17 10:38:47 · answer #3 · answered by sappho 3 · 10⤊ 2⤋
I'm not going to give you the whole "you're only seventeen" speech because I believe you should be free to do what you want to do. If you really feel like you're ready then just go for it. Just go do what feels natural to BOTH you and him and observe how he reacts to what you do to him. Every man is different so the only straightforward advice I can give is try not to use your teeth. (it doesn't feel good to most dudes) But yeah, just observe how his body reacts to you as you blow him and go along that route. Also though if you really think it's gross and don't want to give him a BJ then you should just tell him and explain it. If he doesn't understand where you're coming from then he isn't the type of guy you want to be with anyway. Hope this helps and good luck!
2007-12-17 10:39:23 · answer #4 · answered by Jake 2 · 14⤊ 3⤋
The real trick is you use your hand for the main manipulation. Your mouth is just to tease, lick.
Using your tongue is great. (Half the fun is working up to new things.) There is lots of teasing you can do.
I advise you to learn how to work him with your hand, first. This gives you a lot more control and gives him a lot more sensation. Hold your hand to your mouth like a bugle - and you get the idea.
If you do take him in your mouth, curl your lips back so you dont scrape him with your teeth. (This is hard to do and one of the reasons this does not work so well).
Drinking ice water can give a great alternate sensation. (Dont worry - he will enjoy it.)
If you do decide to have him finish in your mouth:
- Angle him to point to your cheek & leave a gap for air. Other wise it is like a squirt gun hitting the back of your throat or clamping your lips will cause you to sputter.
- Have klennex handy for cleanups.
Keep in mind that this is an advanced technique. It's messy until you get more experience. Take everything with a cheerful grin and a laugh no matter where things wind up.
2007-12-17 10:51:34 · answer #5 · answered by Grumpy Mac 7 · 19⤊ 3⤋
use your tongue first then make sure your lips are over your teeth and up and down. make sure you have enough saliva b/c if your mouth is dry it want be as good. try practicing on a banana or something.
2007-12-17 10:49:23 · answer #6 · answered by Bilinda G 6 · 13⤊ 1⤋
you need to know if your bf has sexual desires or willing to have some sexual relationships in his part of love. If you know he likes it and stuff, you should probably give it to him as Christmas present or birthday present or some nice holiday or anniversary present ya? He'll be surprised, but that is if he likes it.
2007-12-17 10:34:00 · answer #7 · answered by Red Panda 6 · 4⤊ 8⤋
i think you should talk to him about it. but don't always resort to this just because you feel like you owe it to him, but because you love him. it sounds cheesy but it's true.
2007-12-17 10:44:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 5⤋
ok... if you wanna post some private way i can explain to what to do i'll help...just dont wanna post on here and get a violation
2007-12-17 10:38:30 · answer #9 · answered by ..... 7 · 8⤊ 11⤋
You should not have any kind of sexual relations with anyone until you are married. If your boyfriend doesn't understand this then he doesn't really love you; he is using you.
2007-12-18 10:25:10 · answer #10 · answered by drshorty 7 · 16⤊ 45⤋