my friend is having a baby and this should be exciting and all but she is so young and I am terrified for her to the point where i have cried and at first she was worried but now she is like everything happens for a reason but i am concerned and her mom doesnt know only me her sister and one other friend what should we do please do not criticize because she needs help not judgement thankyou
2007-12-17 10:21:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Her mom really has to know so that she can help your friend make the right choices for the baby and your friend. It is not going to be easy but it really is necessary. Try to convince her to sit down and talk to her mom herself for the best intrest of the baby.
2007-12-17 10:32:23 · answer #1 · answered by Janice M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Assuming your friend is living at home - maybe she should tell her mom... or wait a few months and she won't have to say anything. Seriously, sooner or later it's going to come out. (Oops - that didn't sound right either...)
If she's too scared, maybe one of you can be there so that her mom doesn't get too carried away. Or you could tell her instead while she waits at your place, and then go tell your friend what mom said, if that's what she would like.
Odds are, after she gets over the shock, mom will be supportive. There's only one way to find out.
2007-12-17 10:33:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do that (let it slip 2 her mum) and get on the bad side of your friend what she needs now is ppl she can trust and thank god she seems 2 have that in u ! she doen need to speek to her mum ! even if u go with her or have a social worker or the like with u guys when she does it ! if uor worried b there for her make sure she gets antinatal care and yes get her 2 talk 2 her mum ! it really cant b hidden for 2 long anyway !
2007-12-17 10:30:44 · answer #3 · answered by mindi_lee_83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right to feel concerned and supportive towards your friend. She's needs non-judgemental people like you to help her understand what she needs to do.
Ultimately it is her decision, and she will make better decisions is she has all the information and support she needs.
Good Luck.
2007-12-17 12:15:55 · answer #4 · answered by Paulo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it slip to her mom or make some prank call from planned parenthood. I know it shoulds bad but the only one that can help is her mom and I know you want to be a good friend so that is the best thing you can do. Good Luck!
2007-12-17 10:25:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Help HER with the decisions she makes. You know that her mum needs to know, but it is up to her whether or not she lets her mum know. You need to be supportive of her and give her guidance. she may not even listen, but that's about all you can do. The hard things are up to her.
2007-12-17 10:35:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she can handle it good for her but she needs to tell her mom. when she tells her mom you can stop worrying cus then an adult will be able to help her with all that she will go through
2007-12-17 10:26:24 · answer #7 · answered by emmyline 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋