My now ex g/f told me that she needs to get better mentally b/c of an autoimmune disorder. We started to be just friends and that lasted about a week after I found from a friends roommate that she was on match.com lookin for love. After I confronted her about this she told me to move on through a text message. Fine, I have plenty of girls as friends that want something long term. She told me one day before that I am very handsome, sweet, and great. She says that I'm a great kisser and I'm a 12 out of 10 in bed, without even asking her. I don't need her, but I wanted to be with her. If she wants to get better by having time alone and she calls me perfect, why is she going on line looking for something else?
2007-12-17 10:03:21 · 10 answers · asked by cappatown23 3 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
Thanks David, just telling the truth
2007-12-17 10:39:18 · update #1
she is a player!!
2007-12-17 13:23:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in relationships where the girl had all the qualities a guy could want.
Yet knowing in my heart she just wasn't "the one". So how does a person tell another that without the hurt? People would rather try and blame themselves for the failed relationship, instead of being point blank and say: Your just not "the one". You probably have all the qualities a girl could want, just not that particular girl. Oh and by the way, A 12 out of 10............WOW!!! Impressive!! or concided?
2007-12-17 10:25:14 · answer #2 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 21:36:09 · answer #3 · answered by edmondson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To take a look on a different side: She may love all of those things about you but is just not ready to commit to a long term serious relationship. Many times it is not on a conscience level and some times it is. If you feel you can still be friends with her you might be there when she is ready. BUT I say move forward with your life and date. You may end up finding a woman that loves all of those things and wants to commit herself to you. Hang in there!
2007-12-17 11:01:45 · answer #4 · answered by gizmo357 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to sound harsh it's obvious that she need something more. I know alot of women that goes on the Internet to shop for a new man, I found my friend on the Internet alot of people is doing it to find a connection, the Internet is like a big candy store you pick any flavor you want. Why don't you join to find your new flavor...
2007-12-17 10:19:35 · answer #5 · answered by funspicetee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she was trying to let you down gently. Sorry mate. Might be time to move on.
2007-12-17 10:13:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell, just go get you a young lady that will
treat you right.
This one is playing games with you.
Good luck to you.
2007-12-17 10:19:43 · answer #7 · answered by skunk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.she may be playing mind games with you
2.she may be testing you
3. she likes to play with strangers online(doesnt have anything to do with you)
but as i dont know her , im just assuming
2007-12-17 10:11:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she was lying it was an excuse. or your friend is lying to you about her being online. either way youll fuind better maybe and honest one.
2007-12-17 10:37:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, she's just not that "into" you! Might be a hygene thing too!
2007-12-17 10:11:56 · answer #10 · answered by Useful Idiot 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋