There are straight guys who do not consider themselves "bisexual" but they love to be with me sexually.I try to respect their choice to call themselves whatever they want to,but I do want to better understand this.Because I have been with more guys like this than I ever have gay guys.The last one was engaged to be married but loved to pitch to me and he did not consider it cheating as we remain friends and play now and then.Your views on this?
2007-12-17 09:14:42 · 16 answers · asked by Rick 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No we dont do the BBM thing.We are friends and have occasion to partake now and then.His girl is cool with it.I just dont get the need to HIDE from societies labels.And to clarify,we do not do the booty bandit thing.
2007-12-17 09:59:19 · update #1
Yes I feel like just a toy and it is WONDERFUL to not have to keep any agenda or have all of those relationship expectations.I like this!The thing I am seeing is more so called straight guys wanting to play on the DL.It is GREAT!!!
2007-12-17 10:05:32 · update #2
They just dont want to admit to themselves they are gay or bi so since they are straight & arent having it off with a girl, its not cheating. Bzzzt, its cheating none the less.
Call me Bi if you like, Ive messed around with guys but not while seeing anyone.
2007-12-17 09:35:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
News flash: Straight guys have sex with women. Period. Your friend the "pitcher" is NOT straight. He is bisexual, or maybe even gay. The married guys online on one of the sex sites that I belong to hound me night and day...and for the most part I don't even respond, because I don't want to be that person when Im in a relationship with someone special. I'm not telling you not to do it. Im just saying these guys are kidding themselves.
2007-12-17 09:28:29 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't you feel like just a toy?
I also think that they don't want to consider themselves bisexual (because they really seem to be, if they're guys and are attracted to you sexually). And what the previous guy did was cheating, whether he likes it or not. Also, you shouldn't let others cheat on others through you.
The situation's a bit on the bad side. I don't mean to offend. Just so long as you're happy.
2007-12-17 09:22:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i might somewhat have the friendship with the aid of fact i could on no account be happy in a relationship with somebody i could no longer admire. If the gay guy must be an entire fool, there is no way it would desire to artwork out.
2016-11-03 21:29:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he's in the closet and will continue doing this for the rest of his life. If I were you I'd stop "playing" with him, unless you want to have a Brokeback mountain kind of relationship where you get together every once in awhile behind the wifes back.
2007-12-17 09:18:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
They are bi (or gay) and just don't want to admit it to themselves.
I do know a guy who's wife refuses to give him head, so he goes to gay guys for that. He says that he just imagines that it's his wife and that he never reciprocates. I'm not sure what to what to label him.
I just wish we could live in a day where one is not judged by their sexual preference. It causes people tp live a lie and confuse the heck out of the people in their lives.
Good luck in trying to figure that one out.
2007-12-17 09:21:22 · answer #6 · answered by Investor 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what you call IF your both adults and having fun I say go for it
I love to play catch and have done so with several Straight guys
2007-12-17 09:29:10 · answer #7 · answered by HAND F 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Grab love where you can get it mate
as long as you are happy ----
You might find a nice guy in your Christmas stocking.
He might not be wearing much else LOL
Have a merry Xmas mate
2007-12-17 09:21:28 · answer #8 · answered by steven m 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dude is gay. straight guys would never ever be with men. We dont even want to be close to another penis.
2007-12-17 09:25:06 · answer #9 · answered by handsome_bigfella 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If a 'straight man' wants to be with another man sexually then he is at least bi. lol
I'm no expert on this matter mind =/
2007-12-17 09:24:55 · answer #10 · answered by afronathan 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋