Do i take things too seriously?

Question

I keep thionking that when i tell someone something and they laugh a bit sarcastically it's a slight against me.All i told this girl tday(who said she had 10 minutes to work out)is that maybe she should do one set on each machine and leave(she laughed kinda sarcastically)and i felt worhtless like she was downplaying me.She just has a weird way of laughing.Could i be taking things too seriously?

Answer 1

Yes, especially with all that "thionking" - but surely you knew this already, judging by the times you've asked it <*-*>

Answer 2

10 minutes in women's language is like an hour in Man time. Rest assured she got that workout in.

On the flip side, some people are just that they would rather talk than listen. If whatever she's doing is all important than maybe she shouldn't have come in there for a 10 minute workout in the first place if she knew she didn't have time.

Answer 3

as long as you dont go around offending people don't let it bother you, some people are just strange and take things the wrong way which is their problem not yours, unless you know what kind of a day they have had you don't know what reply you will get from even just saying "hi" to someone, they may have had an argument at home or been waiting years for a bus or maybe they are just really busy so I wouldn't let it worry you.

Answer 4

i think of generic anger 'mismanagement' can't be attributed to race nor lifestyle. it oftentimes is a results of behavioral impacts at abode, your friends, relatives and people you in many cases are available touch with. Or it may be as a results of fact of your psychological state (for loss of an more suitable term). I even have Filipino roots too and got here to usa at an extremely soft age. although we've been experienced to have interplay with all sorts of folk and discovered to get alongside nicely with all of them. It became into not hassle-free before everything coping with people fairly those with large inflated egos however the alternative between disagreement and endurance became no brainers in many activities. Dad continuously pronounced "He who laughs final oftentimes laughs terrific". wager what, people who have been affected person adequate and tried to stay out of subject laughed the terrific.

Answer 5

Doesn't it seem like you offered her advice and she just laughed it off? Would you have preferred no response at all? Maybe she just gave you a different response than you expected, and you're just feeling surprised. Don't take it as a slight against you.

Answer 6

The fact you're worrying about it is a sign you're taking it too seriously, I think. Just let it go. Who cares. Let her have her laugh and figure herself out. Get on with your day and find someone who communicates clearly. Cheers, and Happy Holiday dude!

Answer 7

Honestly.... if you have to ask the question "Do I take things too seriously"... then you probably do.


And if someone at a gym laughs a little.. who cares! Go pump some iron till you can't remember who you talked to! :)

Answer 8

Of course you do.......what age are you about 10 or something,......BE CONFIDENT in yourself.....if you believe you are worthless you are just promoting this within....this leads to a negative outlook on life and then in turn feeds your self-loathing and in turn causes a paranoia,......tell yourself after you have been to the gym that your a big gorgeous ride.....you'll soon believe this after a while and forget about asses like that girl.........JUST remember you can choose your friends...so if someone disses you F*** em

Answer 9

yes!! stop worrying so much about what other people are thinking about you, it really does not matter. This is a hard problem that everyone faces, but once you stop over thinking things you will be much happier!

Answer 10

i dont think you take things too seriously, maybe you're just one of the few who have a deeper perception of the true meaning behind people.