My Gf and i have been togather 7 months and we have to be secert about are relationship because my gf mom doesnt like me. her mom doesnt know anything about me she only knows my dad. my gf tolf me her mom doesnt like me because her uncle went to jail and he hung out with my dad. so my gf mom is holding this against me when i had nothin to do with it. my gf is having a hard time because she doesnt want to hid anymore. but i dont know how we are going to tell her. her mom wont let me have any contact with her. i need to find a way out. i need help. we r both 14
2007-12-17 08:05:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You've just gotta be straight up about it, man. If her mom doesn't like it she just has to accept it. Besides, how can she say she doesn't like you? She doesn't even know you!
2007-12-17 08:11:40 · answer #1 · answered by jmattiesmufc 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The truth needs to come from your girlfriend because eventually the mom will find out. Your girlfriend should tell her mom she likes somebody at school and he's a nice guy and so on and so forth. The mom might not think of you or she might be like it better not be that boy.. Either way your girlfriend has to stay calm and just explain that you are not like your dad (are you?) and you guys really like each other. Have your girlfriend ask if you can come over for dinner. See if she can just convince her mom to have a nice dinner to "introduce" you. Bring flowers for the girl and a nice desert for the mom. Make sure you are polite, dress nice and so on. Actually if the parents dislike you a little it's a good thing because girls (for some reason no one has ever figured out) like that but if they hate you or love you that could be a bad thing. Let me know how it works out and I'll give you more advice.
2007-12-17 16:13:32 · answer #2 · answered by Matthew 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if her mom doesn't agree with the relationship then it will be very hard for it to work- i know from experience. however, if you try to win her mom over, show her that you're a good person- it will take time but it could work. you need to get your gf to show her mom how much she wants to be with you, but not so her and her mom fall out because that'll make things worse for everyone. you need to approach the situation with caution and think before you do anything. i think you should get your gf to talk to her mom, eventually she'll understand- even if she tells her mom you've only just started going out or if she says you've just asked her out on a date- then it's not too big of a shock to her mom. that's the best advice i can give you, hope things work out okay
2007-12-17 16:11:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to talk with her mom and be frank with her. Tell her how you feel about her daughter, and maybe she will reconsidered.
I mean she can't really blame you or hate you because of something your father did.
That's in the past, and nobody can do anything about it now.
2007-12-17 16:20:07 · answer #4 · answered by Little-one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, i'm 14 2, if i was you i'd try to get ur girl to talk to her mom, i don't think there is anyhting you can do,unless you like lave people in a fire, ahahhahahaha, sry i'm not much help
2007-12-17 16:24:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and prepared that your GF's mom will reject the relationship. People unfortunately pass judgment, warranted or not.
2007-12-17 16:15:13 · answer #6 · answered by JulepSlake 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋