2007-12-17 08:03:32 · 18 answers · asked by LLorona 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Same reason all the sparkly feelings fade. Love isn't sparkly feelings and passionate sex.
2007-12-17 08:07:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I saw that someone mentioned laziness and that is a big part of it. Any relationship is just like a full time job, you have to constantly work at it to keep it going. When you get to the point that you go through the motions (And yes I know there is work, and kids, family, and life that keeps one from being as passionate as before) because it is easy because you know each other so well. If you really want to start to bring the spark back here is a suggestion. Talk to your mate about bringing the passion back into your sex life. Don't make it seem like an argument, just something you can both do together. There is a book called "101 Nights of Great Sex". The way the book works is that half of it is things the man has to do, the other half is things the woman has to do, and then there is one that they do together. You can pick one day each week to have your romantic night. The ideas are nice, not to raunchy (well what I have read so far) and things you probably would have thought of if you had more time. Enjoy the book and hopefully the open lines of communications it should bring.
2007-12-17 08:19:04 · answer #2 · answered by daddy280 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Passion will last for as long as you let it. Try new things and it should work out. Being in love is a beautiful thing even after 15 or 50 years. Think about the good o'le days and the sex will continue to be amazing. I know it is for my husband and I after 25yrs. every time we do it still feels like we are doing it for the very first time. Oh what an amazing night it was. His loving making drives me crazy to the point that some times we do it in public places just to get it on And it will never die out or fade out because we both are very much into each other in mind, in heart and sexually. We complete each other.
2007-12-17 08:49:39 · answer #3 · answered by tootsiebrownie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Passion never has to fade away in a marriage unless someone lets it.
It is like everything else, The first time is easy because it is new but in time you must work on to keep alive, But is well worth it.
2007-12-17 08:14:33 · answer #4 · answered by teeman824 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We all aged up. Actually fade up is not the right term. It reduces. It is normal for everybody. It is like food you eat, you sometimes feel bored eating the same food each week, if you can do it once a month, it is natural...it never fades. Looking into the feeling side...both of you will long for it. Do it once a month....and feel great about it when you do it.
2007-12-17 08:21:01 · answer #5 · answered by Alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One are both of the partners become lazy and comfortable. That's a bad move. The same thing you did to get your spouse is the same thing you do to keep your spouse. When the passion fadesit's up to the person that notices it change it.
2007-12-17 08:15:08 · answer #6 · answered by KSR 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Passion comes and goes. Quite often a couple must work to keep passion going. This can be only be accomplished if the couple is intimate in non the non sexual facets of their lives as well as the sexual. This is all just my opinion so I don't have any souces to cite.
2007-12-17 08:42:19 · answer #7 · answered by Cindy G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes two people, with two right chemistries and an assortment of other mixtures to remain the glowing aura. There are many things that can maybe help you,,, but both need to participate.
2 peeps 4 ever in bliss is the toughest thing on this planet to pull off!!!
2007-12-17 08:12:20 · answer #8 · answered by no_telling2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The greatest part of being together when you're young is the physical stimulation and everything that comes with it!
That level of stimulation depends on your and his mind.
A look, a smell and were off...!
When your young stimulation is never an issue!
Unfortunately, the longer you experience this stimulation, the more the mind becomes accustomed to it, and the harder it is to reach, along with the fact that his sexual peak is 25.
It won't affect the way he feels inside!
Go Figure!
2007-12-17 08:27:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. do you love your partner? If no, then that would explain
2. is your partner boring in bed? if so, that would explain
3. Are you boring in bed? if so, that would explain
try new positions, new things/toys etc etc. get to know what your partner likes and dream of. Spice it up a bit.
2007-12-17 08:08:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋