Based on FEMINISM.. any preferenital treatment (no matter how much sense it makes or doesn't make) is SEXIST.
Therefore being heterosexual is sexist because you favor one gender over the other for sex and romance. No?
Whats the difference between saying "I want an attractive women with a nice butt" vs. "I want a housewife" ?
Some women are happy to be housewives and let their partner boss them around... so what? Whats wrong with that? Some women have nice butts... so what? Whats wrong with that?
I want a passive, shy, weak woman I can boss around and control and will cook my dinner every night. SO WHAT?
2007-12-17 06:26:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
This question is inspired by "Raj G" earlier question.
2007-12-17 06:28:47 · update #1
Everyone has differant prefrences, so its fine if you want that kind of women. No offence but you sound like a control freak! Like i said to one of Gun fans questions, get a fembot.
2007-12-17 06:41:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
You cannot compare sexual orientation and sexist behavior. It's apples and bananas.
Heterosexual (or homosexual or bisexual) is an ORIENTATION. You don't choose to be attracted to a person, you just are. Sexual attraction and romance still hold a lot of mystery, no matter how much science tries to analyze it.
Sexist behavior is making a judgement based on a person's sex, without considering any other abilities they may have.
See the difference?
Your preferences for a mate are yours...no one can tell you they are wrong. But you won't find many of the women you describe as desirable frequenting a women's studies forum, so why ARE you here?
It looks like you are trying to bully these good people into agreeing with you.
2007-12-17 08:04:50 · answer #2 · answered by not yet 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
If a person has that expectation then it is sexist. Man-boobs are unattractive when they are flopping around in the breeze, but I just choose not to look. I can honestly say that I am not offended when a woman lets her breasts flop about, I will probably look. I always thought that bras were an article of choice. I have heard that for some women, it hurts to lets the "girls" roam freely.
2016-05-24 09:15:34 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least your honest about your preference in women. (But you know you're gonna open up yourself for alot of upset females!) I think alot of women, tho would never admit...want a guy first and foremost with a huge bulge in his pants!(I'm talkin' wallet) The guy could be the perfect object of maleness in looks and personality, but without a great job and bank account, your'e not even in the running of Mr. Right. Mr. Mike, I hope you find your ideal woman!
2007-12-17 08:46:59 · answer #4 · answered by zen 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
"I want a passive, shy, weak woman I can boss around and control and will cook my dinner every night. SO WHAT?"
Good luck with that.
Doesn't matter to me. I know I wouldn't date you. We all have our preferences so go after what you like. Nothing wrong with it. I know women like that and they would be happy to stay at home and have babies...they don't mind the bossing so long as they can scarf bon bons and watch Oprah.
Personally I go for hip, artistic, well-groomed, well-educated, city-dwelling metrosexual guys. No bossing around just lots of discussion of books and art and film and food etc oh and then there's emoting with each other. So what indeed.
2007-12-17 06:50:57 · answer #5 · answered by AH0030 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Your question does not really make much sense.
I am a housewife, but I believe that my husband and I are partners. He does not 'boss' me around and demand that I wait on him hand and foot. I am not passive shy or weak. My husband respects me and appreciates me.
If you want your wife to be a slave, then I have no respect for you whatsoever. If you want a marriage where the wife takes care of the domestic activities, then that is up to you and your wife.
2007-12-17 07:20:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
Heterosexuality is innate. You're either attracted to the opposite sex or you're not, and you can't change that. If you want to marry a woman who will be your hausfrau, that's your business, but expecting all women to fit that description is only setting yourself up for extreme disappointment.
2007-12-17 08:40:47 · answer #7 · answered by Rio Madeira 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You mean aside from the fact that one of those is based on genetics (can't really change) and another on cultural norms ('somewhat' easier to change)?
That being said, you're entitled to what you like. Good luck with it.
2007-12-17 16:07:20 · answer #8 · answered by K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know someone you can boss around & control.
She'll cook your dinner for you every night. While she's on the clock, she even does the laundry, clean, iron & do the dishes.
All for the low low price of 10 euros/hour. :-D
BTW, I can work out a deal that if you pay her 15 euros/hour, she'll try not to roll her eyes when you order her around.
2007-12-17 07:04:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
I see. You want a mommy who takes care of you. Tell me, do you also want her to shave you, bathe you, feed you, and even wipe your butt after you've finished using the bathroom? Good luck in finding a woman who will put up with your abuse. If you feel the need to get someone you can boss around and control, you're much better staying single. Many of us are teaching our daughters to learn to avoid men like you and find someone else who treats them with respect and not like a slave.
2007-12-17 07:05:36 · answer #10 · answered by RoVale 7 · 5⤊ 2⤋
/golfclap Mike. Really. I've heard you mention that before.
If you find a woman who's willing to cook your meals and be bossed around by you, more power to ya buddy.
You're probably in the wrong category for that, (duh!) and I can safely say that not all women want to be housewives for life; but if that's what you want and that's what she wants, we're not stopping you from going out and getting that.
So, what's stopping you?
2007-12-17 06:51:56 · answer #11 · answered by Heather 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋