when knowing the husband is having affair,does she have right to read the mistress's emails?
2007-12-17 05:31:05 · 60 answers · asked by whyme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why is the wife still with the husband if she knows "the husband is having affair?"
2007-12-17 05:33:30 · answer #1 · answered by Crossing the Rubicon 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Does she have the right? Hell yeah she does. That is her husband and if she wants to check up and read his stuff then she can. Should the men care? No, why would they? If they didn't have anything to hide they wouldn't care if there wife read the emails. Although if the person knew already that her husband was cheating, why even bother? Why not just kick his a.s.s to the curb and get it over with because sooner or later it's going to happen anyways. There is no sense in waiting, wasting your time reading emails that you know consist of his infidetlity.
hope i helped!
2007-12-17 05:55:56 · answer #2 · answered by Kasja 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'd say if he were that stupid to have it openly available then, it's free game! My sister read her husband's. What was worse yet, he was having an affair with another guy! Didn't take long to divorce his ***.
The real issue is not only if he was committing adultry, there is also the issue of health. Coming back and giving you STD's. You have the right to protect your own private parts!
It would also be good evidence to use in divorce proceedings.
2007-12-17 05:37:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The wife has the right to leave the husband and file for a divorce. Why are you putting yourself throught that. He's not going to stop cheating and you knowing and not doing anything about it doesn't make you look smart. Get a backbone and leave him.
2007-12-17 07:01:39 · answer #4 · answered by KSR 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As his wife YES you have a right to read his E-Mails but as his wife, if you distrust him that much that you would invade his privacy by looking at his mail, maybe you should be consulting an attorney because theres a serious problem. ether you have suspicions that he is cheating of you are so insecure in your relationship that you distrust him. If you don't trust him...confront him. Look into his eyes as he talks (the eyes don't know how to lie) if he true you'll see it, if not see my original advice...Good luck because if he finds out you looked he WILL be upset that you did and he will never trust YOU again.....Is it worth loosing him over it? Let me know how it works out....ARM = )
2007-12-17 05:47:30 · answer #5 · answered by Amy M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No she doesn't have a right. Why would anyone want to read the mistress's emails anyways? If you know it's going on and haven't walked out then you've implied that it's ok so don't worry about it. If you are worried about it then maybe you should leave...
2007-12-17 05:42:13 · answer #6 · answered by mrskerlin 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No. Absolutley not. That would make you feel sicker to know the exact quotes of sweet-talk she"s bestowing on him. Then you would not be able to erase them from your mind so you would be haunted by her sins as well as his--kind-of-like; cheated-on in stereo. Do you see what I mean? You are already mad at him so why be mad at a woman you don't know?........... Talk to him to express your hurt and discuss ways to bring more closeness and trust into your relationship to save it. Maybe the two of you should plan a weekend getaway to rekindle the romance that brought you together in the first place. Maybe you need to address some issues that you've been sweeping under the rug and ignoring for so long.........Who knows; it could be that he just needed a check-point to test his emotions. Or he could be bored or frustrated with his marriage to you. Love means forgiving. But it also means trying hard to give the other person what he needs so he won"t have the urge to roam.
2007-12-17 06:25:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
No, she has the right to respect his privacy. If he's you are snooping into his personal space and disrespecting his privacy, one may wonder what other ways you are showing him disrespect. One may even go so far as to conclude his happiness with the way he is unfairly treated could be part of his motivation to have an affair with another woman. I doubt this is the case, however, and you are simply trying to gain solid evidence of something you already know, but are weighing out the ethics involved first.
I say if you know he is cheating, you must have some kind of evidence already. If that is the case, take it to your divorce lawyer. If you are not getting a divorce and intend to stay married, you are just as guilty as he is for violating trust. In this case, I would say you both deserve each other. However, if you are seeking divorce due to your belief that he is cheating, your lawyer may very well ask you to print out these emails. In this case, you would simply be gathering evidence to support your side of the divorce and therefore your obligation to respect his privacy would become null and void.
2007-12-17 06:12:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Reading someone else's email is a total violation! You have no right to read his emails. However, you do have the right to kick him out. Even if you don't have physical evidence you can simply tell him you no longer trust him and want a divorce.
2007-12-17 05:42:34 · answer #9 · answered by Bruce M 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
what? ok, if he's having an affair, obviously you shouldn't be married. if he's your husband, you should trust him enough not to have to snoop through his stuff. that's disrespectful. but if he's having an affair, obviously he doesn't deserve respect. have you confronted him about this? are you SURE he's having an affair? or are you just one of those really paranoid type of people? if this is your relationship, you guys need serious help.
2007-12-17 05:35:42 · answer #10 · answered by gretaraye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋