and why is their that mentality of "you can do better" when you may be dating someone less attractive although they may have a great personality
2007-12-17 04:43:21 · 16 answers · asked by blackoil 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
yeah
i feel like i'm to good for someone "uglier", and i'm to self-conscious to date someone more attractive than i
2007-12-17 04:46:41 · answer #1 · answered by ishouldhavebeenafarmer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I always date someone based on their personality but you have to be physically attracted to the person also. All my friends have always said I could get hotter guys than the ones I date, but the guys I date have always had a great sense of humor and a kind soul (for the most part, of course there were a few a**holes in there). I think looks fade but personality is forever.
2007-12-17 04:48:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I date people on my same level. I go for personality first and looks second. So what they may be lacking in looks they're really making it up for it in personality.
At the end of the day a pretty face is nice to look at, but I want someone I can actually hold an intelligent conversation with!
2007-12-17 04:47:48 · answer #3 · answered by gopher646 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every woman on the planet is more attractive than me, because I'm a guy, and guys are not attractive. As for the 'personality/appearance trade off, I don't under stand why you can't have both. I would never date a physically unattractive woman, but I would never date a woman without a great personality either.
2007-12-17 04:47:26 · answer #4 · answered by Fred S - AM Cappo Di Tutti Capi 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I dont feel like I deserve someone better looking than I do. And generally they will leave you anyway. Thats why looks are never no longer first, its all about the person underneath the skin. because when you find someone with a great personality, they look beautiful to you no matter what
2007-12-17 04:47:27 · answer #5 · answered by SLP fanatic 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A woman's looks are only good for the first few minutes. After that, her personality takes over. And to me, that's alot more important.
2007-12-17 04:48:26 · answer #6 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ummmmmmmmm. Yes I am currently dating someone as attractive as I am, but I am mentally smarter than he is. I've liked guys who are less attractive than me, but as smart as I am. As long as their funny and I find them attractive I DONT CARE!!!!
2007-12-17 04:59:28 · answer #7 · answered by Cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, if that were true, I'd be dating some really ugly women.
As to you're second question... the 'you can do better' might not always be about the looks. What seems like a great personality to one person, may seem like a bad personality to another.
2007-12-17 04:46:24 · answer #8 · answered by DSC 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I think most people say "you can do better" when you are with somebody who is a complete loser, no job, no drive to get a job, etc. not their looks.
2007-12-17 04:47:55 · answer #9 · answered by Squadcar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i date someone based on personality and how they treat me as a person.
a person who is good looking on the outside often has an ugly inside.
2007-12-17 04:46:58 · answer #10 · answered by Soda 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No
Sometimes uglier guys work the hardest to be sweet and a great person
Looks aren't everything
2007-12-17 04:46:32 · answer #11 · answered by marm212 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋