I really don't like the thought of 'going down there' (i am happy to write the right words but i don't want this to be censored)
I fall in love with girls, and am happy to do other stuff, but just not that, I'm pretty sure I'm just begin stupid but please help!
2007-12-17 04:40:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Dear Magic,
A. Would you be willing to go down there for a boyfriend?
B. If your girlfriend brought out the "toys" would you be willing to play?
Think about your answers to those questions. Liking or disliking a particular sex act doesn't make you either gay or strait. Who... and who you want to... love and sleep with dose.
Hugs,
PennyAnn
2007-12-17 05:07:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I have been in that same situation TRUST ME. I know exactly what you are going through. For me,.. it seemed I would get crushes on girls and think they were so beautiful and I would want to kiss them and hold them.. but anything sexual.. it was hard to imagine. But once you are actually in love with an individual person.. you are completely and totally attracted to them. And you will want to do anything and everything to make them feel good, and to even explore their body. I believe the more time goes by and the closer you get to someone the more likely you will be comfortable with everything. Trust me.. I have been there.
2007-12-17 12:47:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your not sexually attracted to women, but romantically attracted to women.
Like on occasions I will sometimes feel more sexually attracted to one gender and romantically attracted to the other. I'm bi by the way.
Its probably the way you feel, you may feel uncomfortable at the moment, but you'll most likely get over it and you know, go down there.
On my experience, when I was going through that whole "Am I gay?" process of life, I always thought "I would never want to suck d*ck!" But eventually you overcome that.
2007-12-17 12:49:31 · answer #3 · answered by Alex M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex doesn't have to mean going down there. Just be honest with your partner and I'm sure you can find many things to enjoy without that!
2007-12-17 16:07:31 · answer #4 · answered by canes77 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I'm a gay man and I still don't like to do many of the things I see performed on porn films--does that mean I'm not gay???!!! No! It means I have my own individual preferrences--just like every body else does--there are scores of hetereosexual women who don't like going "down there" on a man either--my ex-wife is one of 'em--even with her current husband, she won't!
2007-12-17 12:46:46 · answer #5 · answered by starkneckid 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel comfortable to do stuff like that ,then don't. you are not stupid. Love is not all about sex. If you are in love, you have to play all sort of sex activities with them. That is not true.
2007-12-17 13:29:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your surely not gay.Just trying to be perverted.Get over that trash.
2007-12-17 16:54:25 · answer #7 · answered by charvette3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
fall for guys.start it now,because you a girl.just remember that.
2007-12-18 08:43:43 · answer #8 · answered by truth set free 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it doesn't mean anything. not everyone likes to be on the giving end of *that*.
2007-12-17 12:43:48 · answer #9 · answered by scoop 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
not all lesbians like givin or recieving oral. u norm
2007-12-18 00:02:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋