2007-12-17 04:35:55 · 10 answers · asked by leel 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Christmas
You didn't mention if he's able to be up and about. If so, ask him what he would like to do more than anything. Sometimes, it can be as simple as visiting a childhood home or town, or a favorite meal. But, one thing that's special is to put together a photo album of his friends and family. Ask some long time friends he hasn't heard from in a while to call on Christmas day. One of the best things you can do for the family name is to talk with him and get information about the family for a family tree and family history.Also, don't act depressed, let this be an uplifting time to share your feelings and allow them to share their feelings if they want to. Use this time to let them know how you feel and things you have appreciated about them in the past.
2007-12-17 04:47:18 · answer #1 · answered by shirl a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How sad. Why not ask them if they want something special or if they would like something done for them and try to get it for them or do it for them. If they are bedridden and very weak get something soothing/relaxing like lavender candles or aromatherapy sprays for the room. Soothing music.
God bless them.
2007-12-17 12:57:40 · answer #2 · answered by lilith663 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A donation in their name to a favorite charity.
A star named after them.
A bouquet of their favorite flowers(let them smell them now)
2007-12-17 12:49:31 · answer #3 · answered by Janice Dickinsons' Shrink 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you give them yourself! you visit them! you hug them...you spend time with them... like some others have said, you give them candles...and you give them prayers, and photos of the family... god bless them! i know someone who has overcome cancer , and another who is suffering now... so god bless all cancer patients!
2007-12-17 12:47:47 · answer #4 · answered by me XD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe a lap blanket or somthing to keep them comfortable, lotions for their body
2007-12-17 12:44:15 · answer #5 · answered by Stephanie O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i got my uncle these little stones that were called hope stones and they stood for strength, hope, prayer, love, and family and he carried them with him every time he was in the hospital.
2007-12-17 12:44:46 · answer #6 · answered by Lemurkins 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
photos of the family, Candles (lavender),
2007-12-17 12:39:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
their fav yummy treats
2007-12-17 14:15:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a trip to disneyland.
2007-12-17 12:40:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything they want.
And how sad this is.
2007-12-17 12:43:28 · answer #10 · answered by bostonsportsfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋