No one was hurt but I'm p-------ed Wouldnt you be mad or would you just get over it?
2007-12-17 04:20:53 · 65 answers · asked by Cowgirl lost seahorse 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Your right I'm glad he wasnt hurt but i'm still upset or something dont know what I am-- A high school kid hit him, and she wasnt hurt. I guess I should be thankful!
2007-12-17 04:27:45 · update #1
Thanks everyone you are all right and now I think i'll just go off some where and cry.
2007-12-17 04:48:21 · update #2
get over it, I doubt he did it on purpose.
2007-12-17 04:23:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 2⤋
I would get over it the most important thing is that he and everyone else is ok, you can always replace your car, but your cant replace your husband. How pissed would you be if it was him that got totaled?? Probly pretty hurt!!! So be gald it was the car and not him!
Hopefully you have insurance!
Christmas is almost here just think you could have been spending it in the hospital with him, or worse dealing with a funeral! WHY be pis*sed over material things its NOT worth it?
Thank God he was looking out for your husband! Do you have life insurance? How messed up would life really be if something had happened to him. Please appreicate your loved ones more they are not replacable!
You must be young and have never had someone close to you die or be criticly injured if you dont understand what really is important!
This year my father was hit by GMC Yukon while he was walking across the street. He had 3 brain hermorages, punctured lungs, huge gash on head, suffred a stroke because of it, all kind of other complications that caused us to almost lose him more than once thank god he lived! Do you think we were worried about that person Car getting damaged??? I guess in for that reason they should be about there car since there insurance going to pay well over what that car cost!
2007-12-17 04:26:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
While your feelings are not wrong, they are your feelings and they are real feelings and its great to get it out. I would also be thankful as well. So glad to hear that no one was hurt. Things could be a lot worse, think of the people who are not so lucky and fortunate. If anything, this should bring you closer, make you more thankful for each day and move on together. I love my car too, but I would be more thankful to have my husband with me than my car. A car can be replaced, loved ones can't be. I hope that I really dont sound like a Hallmark card. I just want you to be aware that while you may be mad, your husband probably feels just as bad for wrecking your car, he may not say it, but I am sure he knew that you liked the car and he definitely I am sure didn't want to wreck it for more reasons than that. I am not saying that you are wrong in being mad, but you may want to look past that and work with your husband to decide what to do next. Glad that everyone is ok, I really hope that things work out for you guys.
2007-12-17 04:34:01 · answer #3 · answered by Stephie13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just remember, it's just a piece of metal and plastic. Feelings are more important then anything. Don't be mad just be glad everyone is alright. I've had 2 sons that was in a near fatal accident last easter and believe me, spending your nights at the hospital is no fun. The one son went thru the back window and had to be care flighted to the hospital. Cars can be replaced. Have a cup of coffee on me and I will be saying a prayer for your family. Health and safety are always a blessing. It's still ok to be mad it's human nature.
2007-12-17 04:36:03 · answer #4 · answered by Luv2no is in the house 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since I don't even know the man, he'd have to have stolen the car, so I'd probably have him arrested.
Seriously, you need to honestly examine your reaction. It's not a matter of how you "should" react, it's a matter of how you DO react.
Your asking this questions suggests that the car may be more important to you than the husband.
If that is really true, do the man a favor and divorce him.
Get some real perspective. No matter what you do, that car would be a piece of junk in ten years anyway. Which do you want to keep for ten years, the car or the husband?
2007-12-17 04:27:35 · answer #5 · answered by open4one 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my husband totaled one of our cars about 3 1/2 years ago. I was mad because he left me without a car, but I was glad he was ok. Just talk to your insurance provider (hopefully you have insurance) and go shopping for a new car. Use the insurance payout as a down payment. The ins. co. should have the car valued within a week or so. Ask the dealership if they'll write you a promissory note so you can get your new car faster. My dealership gave us a $1000 promissory because that's how much we were going to get back after the Taurus' loan was paid off. GL to you.
2007-12-17 04:26:08 · answer #6 · answered by Lauren 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A car is a piece of of machinery and an object that gets you from point A to point B in relative comfort. What if your husband had been seriously hurt or worse?? Would you still be pizzed?? Thank God he and everyone are ok, call your insurance company, and go car shopping. And have a merry Christmas. And yes, get over it for God's sake.
2007-12-17 04:25:42 · answer #7 · answered by mike_in_tex 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad both of them ended up OK and uninjured! Accidents happen and after all that's why we call them accidents, try not to worry about the car in can be replaced. Easy for me to say that but it's true, give your hubby a hug and be grateful he's still with you! I think Santa just gave you the best Christmas present you could get, a husband home in one piece. Hug for you too CLS! :)
2007-12-17 05:54:45 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Was if his fault? You can't blame him if not, but if it was preventable on his behalf, I'd have a hard time getting over it. It's happened to me & he was drunk, drove 70+MPH on a small side street, hitting the curb & cracking the engine block, making it a total no can fix. He was so drunk he could not walk & I was at work while he was supposed to be doing the same. He asked for the car to go to a job interview, but decided it was more fun to get drunk instead. His tipsy, but not so drunk older brother tried to stop him. He blamed his brother, but I'm no dummy & never did forgive him on that one nor did he ever repay me even after buying himself several cars to fix up & sell over the next 7 years we were on & off again. This was only a 13 month old car I bought brand new with money I got from my mother's death just prior to meeting this jerk. Oh, it makes me madder than a wet hen just to think about it!!
Good luck to ya!!
2007-12-17 04:35:54 · answer #9 · answered by Cheripie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess I would initially be really ticked off as well, especially since we only have one vehicle. But eventually I would be glad nobody was hurt and we can move on. ...........I know the poor guy will wish he was dead once I got yelling at him, but I'd still get over it.
I'm sorry, it's such a drag dealing with a car accident and insurance companies and all that crap. I hope everything works out for you. .............. I guess now you just have no choice but start picking out a new car (wink wink).
2007-12-17 04:33:42 · answer #10 · answered by texicangirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the type of mad. It is possible to be mad that the car is totaled and you have to buy another one without being mad at your husband per se.
Try put your mad in the proper place. Was your husband at fault...if he was then it is okay to be mad at him...though, I would let him know you are happy he is safe.
If the fault is with the other driver then go ahead and be mad at the other driver.
I would try to get over it as soon as possible but, when dealing with emotions sometimes it is not possible to put a time limit on being mad. And you don't want to ruin your holiday by being angry especially with your husband.
2007-12-17 04:27:36 · answer #11 · answered by Jen M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋