I have a temporary hearing for divorce in a few weeks. I have read the basics. But still am a little confused. I filed for the divorce my husband has yet come to the realization that i am actually going to go through with it. my husband has been violent in the past but hasn't touched me since I filed for divorce. Anyways he doesn't have a lawyer I do. I pay for everything as my husband only worked for three days while we were married and that was two years ago. i want him out of the house, since when I come home all he does is bug me and tell me to stop the divorce. Is this something that can be accomplished normally at the temporary hearing? By the way we do have a two year old son together and my husband watches him during the day or my parents do. The other day he told my son that I wished he was never born and that i wanted to have an abortion which is so not true, my son was a planned pregnancy.
2007-12-17 03:13:48 · 4 answers · asked by hleichtnam 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Should mention that I am the lease holder on the apartment and he is just an occupant since he doesn't have an income
2007-12-17 03:22:36 · update #1
First of all get this guy out the house! Do not let him back in and go through the proper channels for child access, etc. Get your son into a day care center or ask your parents to take him and pay them a contribution for looking after him rather than day care. "Cheaper" This guy is poisoning your Sons mind! What an awfull thing to say? The question you should be asking yourself is what will he say/do next? And you must both learn to get along even if its only around your son when hes with you both. As for the divorcee, well that's pretty straight forward and very quick. Best of Luck Hun. Hugs sent.
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2007-12-17 03:23:19 · answer #1 · answered by Debbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you can't stop what an angry ex tells your kid. You may not be able to get him to leave. It's more effective if you move out. Problem is, is he on the lease or mortgage of the house? And don't give him a key to the new place. At the hearing any temporary arrangements will be set up like who has custody of the kid. There are a lot of decisions to be made. Start boxing up your hubby's stuff so it's easier for him to leave, if you are going to try to make him leave. You can put all his stuff on the porch, change the locks. a judge is not going to come over and 'make' him move out.
2007-12-17 03:18:27 · answer #2 · answered by Sufi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your lawyer that he won't leave. In most states if you do not have separate addresses the court will not issue a divorce. If nothing else be sure that it is put in the temporary orders that you get the house and then tell your lawyer you will need help in getting it enforced. Good luck and stay strong.
2007-12-17 03:18:02 · answer #3 · answered by sassypurplecat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy, it sounds like you need a little counseling. Well I'm not here to pass judgement. If he does not procure a lawyer then he will be screwed by yours. So no worries their. Maybe he isn't going to care what you take, because he loves you. I don't know why he would say such a thing or if he really did? Thats on your end of the drama.
2007-12-17 03:20:52 · answer #4 · answered by Daniel R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋