my wife and me are seperated. She tells me that she doesnt like men around her daughter. she says she feels uncomdortable with my daughter spending time with me. When i ask her can my daughter spend the night over my house. she says no. she says 'dont push it' when i asked to take her somewhere. then she says im being difficult and thats she gives me a hard time. and that i should be lucky to have her. She says that i must give her time to change and trust me. i ask how long?, she says she doesnt know!Today she just changed her mind and decide to stay home so i wouldn't have to take our daughter, whos 18 months. when i came to her she refuse to open the door or answer phone calls or texts. I pay her child support and have never did anything to hurt my daughter and i know how to take care of her every since me and her mother broke up 2 months ago.she got more controlling and dictating.i have threaten her with court, she she doesn't care. what is going on?
2007-12-17 02:57:16 · 9 answers · asked by ace82 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like she's still mad at you over the break up. It's either that or she is having separation anxiety from yalls daughter. If she's never been away from the kid that could definitely be the problem. You'll have to get a lawyer involved to get your visitation rights enforced most likely. Good luck and don't give up on your child no matter what.
2007-12-17 03:03:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest with yourself, face the reasons why the marriage is broken, and put your daughter first. So if you did anything to your wife maybe that scared her, or anything, you needd to be willing to get help for that. Sounds like she is being a mother wolf who is protecting her young. Also it' s hard for a mother to be away from her child like that, and not healthy for a baby so young to stay all night away from main home. So what you may need to do, is set up a time to visit for a couple of hrs. a week in the home. This will help build trust and proove that you are serious about being commited to seeing your daughter. This is the best for the baby, she is to young to stay all night, and that is based on court custody . My papers say it needs to be a build up with age, how long the visits are away from home. So a much as it sucks, you still need to put what is best for the baby first, and try your hardes to work with the mother w/o conflict.
2007-12-17 03:10:19 · answer #2 · answered by Maalru3 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-11 11:22:45 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is getting payback, because if she was ginuinely concerned about you being an unfit father- she would have made it known through courts and tried to take away your rights with your daughter. maybe she's paranoid you will take baby and run. regardless, you need to go to court for specific visitation, you wont be denied ulness you are proved unfit, you know like if you are addicted to drugs or something like that. take control of your life before its too late, dont let her scare you. believe it or not, the courts are really standing up for men in your situation now, moms like her are becoming the enemy.
2007-12-17 03:12:52 · answer #4 · answered by Kisha A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hire an attorney. As her father, you have every right to see your daughter. Your wife is being extremely unreasonable. Start divorce proceedings and get the time with your daughter that you deserve!
2007-12-17 03:03:28 · answer #5 · answered by Marina 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
shes being a protective mom so many dads are molesting there own kids some are killing there babies go to kjas.com last Sunday a dad lost it and killed him little baby put the baby in bed call the police the next day said he was scared test prove the baby was shook to death maybe he couldn't stop crying not saying you would do any of these things mom just has to come to grip with the ideal you love the baby as much as she do and you would only protect her and cause no harm
2007-12-17 03:07:16 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your wife has become vendictive, at this point if you are paying child support you are entiltled to see your child, if there is no set days to see your child then you shouldnt have to pay child support, My advice to you is get a lawyer, get a divorce, and get visitation where your wife has to let you see your daughter by court order. If you have just been paying child support out of the goodness of your heart, Stop until she starts letting you see your child, she is using your daughter as leverage against you to make you do what she wants you to do, This is called a womans scorn. but by law if you are under court order to pay child support, she is under court order to let you have visitation and if she is refusing, she is in contempt, In short, I would take her to court.
2007-12-17 03:08:18 · answer #7 · answered by john d 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i dont know y women think they can get away with that because its your kid to and u can go to court for that. Just as quick as she would if you diden't pay child support.
2007-12-17 03:04:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's either because you are a %$&*, and you can't admit it to yourself, or she is crazy.
If the latter is true, you need to hire a good attorney.
Good luck.
2007-12-17 03:01:35 · answer #9 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋