twice my girlfriend had an abortion against my wishes and there was not one thing i could do about it. but if the man wants it theres nothing he can do to make her get it. and im not saying there should be but i am saying why should a single man pay support under these conditions
2007-12-17 00:59:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
You have a choice:
Pay $10, once, for a few rubber goods (and use them).
or
Pay tens of thousands for child support.
If you are not mature enough to take precautions, you are not ready for sex - that goes for both men and women - but the woman has to carry the child.
And, um, no one has the right to demand someone else have major surgery - tho certain men - not all - need a lobotomy.
2007-12-17 01:12:01 · answer #1 · answered by mr_fartson 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
you should pay cause you are the father of this child. will you just gonna leave her alone with the baby? are you gonna run away? how can she survives through the bills? be a man and pay for support, or get some effective birth control next time.
there are many teenage mothers & fathers out there and they are doing everything they can to support their babies. they know they've made a mistake, but they still support each other.
abortion is murder. they suck out the baby and its painful for both, for baby too (depends on the age when center for pain develops in brains). think if they would put some device inside of your genitals and body. the older the baby is, the more painful it is.
twice? I thought people learn the lesson after first time. I guess some individuals need more lessons. I would give up on sex after first time and get a good birth control before having sex next time. pills are 99% effective, but vasectomy is 100% :)
2007-12-17 01:15:32 · answer #2 · answered by baywatch 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you insert your penis into a woman's vagina you are doing it with the full knowledge that a child can result. That is the implied risk of sexual intercourse - you know about it long before the act and have a conscious choice whether or not to complete the act.
Sorry, but that's just reality. A woman has additional options by virtue of being the carrier of that child but that does not negate the fact that you willingly had sex with the person and if a child results you are accountable.
My suggestion: Stop having sex with people you do not wish to procreate with.
2007-12-17 01:20:10 · answer #3 · answered by Susie D 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yes I think the man should pay child support even if he did request an abortion cause he should have controlled himself better and she should have kept her legs close. Not to be mean but that's my opinion.
2007-12-17 06:09:59 · answer #4 · answered by Hannahs Pregnant!!!! 9 weeks 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If I'm not mistaken, and I probably am, the single man can hire a lawyer and request to give up all rights to his child during a support hearing. This probably varies from state to state, and is a raw deal for the kid if something happens to his/her mother.
2007-12-17 01:14:00 · answer #5 · answered by SpiderBJD 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, she wouldnt be in that position if it wasnt for the man in the first place. First off, no matter how much birth control there is out there, its not 100% effective meaning people have sex with the knowledge that pregnancy could occur. if he really didnt want a kid he would make sure his partner was on some sort of birth control. I wouldnt trust it to the Trojan man, I wouldnt trust it to chance and I most definitely wouldnt trustt her word for it neither. Simple as that...if men dont want unexpected kids and know thats not the woman they want them with either way, then stop and think of who you sleep with.
2007-12-17 01:39:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Abortion is akin to MURDER.
Now that we have that out of the way, having sex with a woman could result in pregnancy. If you can not support a child, don't have sex. Very simple. Do you know the failure rate for using abstinence as birth control? It's 0%! Can't get any better then that. I suggest you look into using it.
2007-12-17 01:06:03 · answer #7 · answered by mustagme 7 · 3⤊ 3⤋
If a man is irresponsible enough to get a woman pregnant, he is responsible for the support of the child. And he cannot make a mother kill her child, or stop her from doing it, as long as the child is part of her body, so she has every right on her body. You got your girlfirend pregnant twice already and you worry about next time? What is best is to ask about contraception instead of abortion issues!
2007-12-17 01:09:24 · answer #8 · answered by klip 2 · 3⤊ 4⤋
you arnt carrying it around for 9 months are you? so you should have no say in the matter of whether or not she need to have an abortion.
if you want her to have one and she refuses, it is her choice and the dad should still pay child support. I'm assuming the father was there for the conception so maybe next time he should use a condom to avoid these problems.
2007-12-17 01:04:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
Because, like it or not, the woman calls the shots on what happens to her body...and you can't put her in the position of saying "well, I'M not paying...so abort."
We don't force women into the hellish decision of being "forced to abort" by a father who has had his fun and now wants to skedaddle.
2007-12-17 01:05:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋