ok so its a girl, shes had a boyfriend for months and last night the guy sent a message to her saying he cheated on her last month or something, now he wants to talk to her sometime to sort it all out, what should she do?
2007-12-16 21:24:28 · 10 answers · asked by Living_Legend 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Well...OK, she needs to break up with him. But I do give him points for at least admitting he cheated on her. That counts for something, even if he told her via text.
She should ring him, coolly say thanks for the text but there really is nothing to discuss. She should tell him she's glad he let her know but that she has to protect herself and she can only be with someone she trusts. She can wish him well and say goodbye. That way she sounds cool and has the upper hand. Screaming, crying, begging etc is not a good look and not good for your dignity. He'll be stunned if she plays it cool. He probably thinks he's so hot she'll be begging to take him back.
2007-12-16 21:32:15 · answer #1 · answered by Janey 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well they are only boy & girl friend right.........not as if they are married & commited etc... so she should just get rid of him dump him hes not to be trusted!!
because if he would cheat now Gee he'll always cheat!
2007-12-17 06:17:59 · answer #2 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him, what a jerk
if she can't even trust him what left in the relationship i mean it was good he was honest but on her side he's not worth it
it sounds like my friends ex. he still tells her he loves her and gives her all this bullshit
im sure your friend can do better then that guy
2007-12-18 00:46:23 · answer #3 · answered by simplycomplex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him:
- Cheating is lame
- Disclosing is lame after a month (it was just to fix his guilt)
- Disclosing by text message is lame
2007-12-17 05:27:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
well since you two have not been dating to long, I would say its not worth it, unless you know he is the one but really once a cheater always a cheater. so listen but move on..
2007-12-17 05:29:01 · answer #5 · answered by CHRISTINA E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the loser and look for someone who appreciates her.
2007-12-17 05:33:56 · answer #6 · answered by Lonely 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to what he got to say 1st b/c he obviously must realy like her to admit his mistake to her. then she should determine what to do.
2007-12-17 05:30:28 · answer #7 · answered by Bo0G!3$ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should meet with him so she can break up with his sorry a**!! You don't break up with anyone through txt!! That's pitiful!
2007-12-17 05:27:33 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥Mommy to 2 Divas♥♥ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
say fuc* him and end it once and for all!!!! once a cheat always a cheat!!
2007-12-17 05:27:50 · answer #9 · answered by *TiNkSteR <3's *him* 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
whatever she want's
um...duh?
2007-12-17 05:29:23 · answer #10 · answered by Ta Dah! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋