How to keep expectations within limits?

Answer 1

rather ambiguous, expectations of what?

Answer 2

Very nice question and very depth one.

Expectations are kept for various reasons like
* When we are weak in any issue and need some support from others who are strong in that issue
* When we emotionally become victim of our own consciousness or likings
* When we develop the feelings of domination or commanding nature
* When any of our personal interest is struck on any particular person
* When we do not have enough confidence on our inner ability

In most of the cases when expectations are not fulfilled, there will be disturbances or sadnees emerging up ruining our lives. So we need to increase our inner self and improve the positive personality of our mind. We need to slowly learn to depend on our self and should avoid depending on others emotionally.

We should also remember that no one expect God can support us at all the circumstances. Human minds are tend to change on various aspects of life and nothing is constant. Life is a journey with various side scenes, but we need to move ahead towards our target. For that we need to have very clear idea of our life goal.

Prioritise the importance of each issue and plan accordingly. The the less important issues will not bother your expectation.

Remember that false expectations are always like a building with weak foundation ... you are just building castles in air

Answer 3

?? wut?? umm, i dont know wut ur asking, but i would have to say expect to be disappointed, and no matter wut u'll be satisfied

Answer 4

Please digress......