2007-12-16 19:34:39 · 15 answers · asked by chris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
...very slowly and without malice.
2007-12-20 19:32:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What exactly made it tragic in the first place? Once you think about those things your mind and heart will gradually understand and accept the breakup of the affair. Then it will be easier to move on.
2007-12-17 03:59:46 · answer #2 · answered by Yahoo User 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, it's so hard.
The corny but true answer is time... Believe me, I know about this from recent personal experience. I don't know if your tragedy is from a death or the heartbreak kind... Mine was the latter and it can just eat away at you.
I actually haven't started to move on much, but the mind takes time to accept a difficult (impossible) situation and we cope the best way we can. Things start to look more doable as we go along. Be kind to yourself.
I hope you have someone you can talk to... sometimes speaking with a counselor is if it's really serious is the best way to start. I wish you the best. Allow yourself time to be sad... and then start finding the good things in life. They ARE there. Reach out to them and allow yourself some goodness.
2007-12-17 03:44:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop drinking. Stop doing drugs. Take a warm shower get a good night sleep, cry through the night if you.need tomorrow will be as cold as your hart will feel, a good day for equilibrium. Put one foot in front of the other, move head long into life. Do not destroy yourself.
When you make it tonight, then tomorrow. who knows what possibilities lay in wait. Get people around you and again no substance abuse clear your mind so you can think, dream and forgive the both of you. Good luck.
2007-12-17 04:01:57 · answer #4 · answered by Medow Mayor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Different people heal differently. The silent types suffer in silence. The party types probably party harder.
I went on a holiday. I went and met my grandmother. She was recovering from a surgery. When I saw her pain and her situation, my pain seemed insignificant.
I also strongly recommend you visiting children's home, senior citizen homes... hospitals... when you look at all that pain, your pain suddenly seems not too bad.
You have the opportunity to heal and move on, find a better life, some better answers.
Take heart and smile. That's the first step to recovery.
2007-12-17 03:43:20 · answer #5 · answered by babasbhakta 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just accept that u have fail and start it over again. But u must talk about it with a good friend older than u are with some experience. Life is not over until u take your last breath.
2007-12-17 03:40:12 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It must have been tragic for a reason. Analyse it and you will find it was full of holes and likely never going to be right anyway.
2007-12-17 03:38:23 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
time heals..
keep yourself occupied and surround yourself with friends and family.
take the time to grieve the loss and readjust to living.
you might do a yahoo search for SURVIVING A BREAK UP or LIFE AFTER A BREAK UP. lots of good help and advice and support on line, if you take the time to look
take care of yourself, and keep the good memories close to your heart.. and try not to be angry over it... hugs
2007-12-17 05:18:13 · answer #8 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all wound. Just take it slowly and don't push yourself too much. It's really hurt and painful but you have to get on with it.
2007-12-17 03:42:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give it time, deal with it, and heal... The same way people have been doing it for thousands of years.
2007-12-17 03:37:27 · answer #10 · answered by Crypt 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Learn the lessons out of it, lift it up to God and move on.....
2007-12-17 04:03:13 · answer #11 · answered by Playful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋