My cousins dad is getting a divorce, he stares at me a lot and compliments me on my looks. I told my cousin a while ago that I thought his dad was hot, you don't think the divorce is happening because he wants to be with me do you? It would be flattering but the guy is twenty years older than me! Maybe he is just being kind to my compliment about him? I don't want to be the cause of a happy relationship to end!
2007-12-16 19:24:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A random compliment does not make for a deep commitment. And marriage is a deep commitment. If you cousin's dad is getting a divorce he probably has other reasons.
I think what you really need to think now is if the divorce is affecting your cousin. If you are close to your cousin, you might want to be around for support.
2007-12-16 19:39:14 · answer #1 · answered by babasbhakta 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doubt it. And even if it is because of you, you still don't carry the guilt of it. Marriages fall apart for many reasons. Sometimes, when breakups happen, there's a "new" person one of the partners is involved with as well, but rarely is that the only reason for the divorce. Ultimately, you aren't the cause. =)
2007-12-16 23:50:57 · answer #2 · answered by ShyeWolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a chance. He is a pervert if there is 20 years between you and if you think about it that is why he is getting a divorce. It isn't because of you it is because he is a pervert to even be thinking of a person 20 years his junior.
Oh! Don't be flattered! You should be afraid and insulted as well! What a tool this man is!
2007-12-16 19:45:42 · answer #3 · answered by Lazer 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you have a good relationship you could ask him or your cousin why he is getting divorced...
Live your life without regret.
Joy to you!
2007-12-16 19:37:39 · answer #4 · answered by frillyfroofroo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most probably not - he would be getting divorced for other reasons.
2007-12-16 19:31:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think it's about you. Maybe he is not happy.
2007-12-16 19:37:02 · answer #6 · answered by rashida_16 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always thgt if i wanted to know i wld just ask .u do get answers
2007-12-16 19:36:57 · answer #7 · answered by Psychologist In The House 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO I dont think so!
2007-12-16 19:44:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over yourself...
and stay away from the guy... you are flirting with fire.
2007-12-16 20:52:29 · answer #9 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋