i am 26 with some female health issues that surgery might have corrected will know soon and i have a low sex drive and never have expierienced an orgasim can anyone tell me why and what to do if you are sarcastic please do not answer go on to the next question
2007-12-16 19:02:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
i have and he says many women feel this way and it is common for them to never expireience an orgasim but i dont want to be that catagory and i am 26 with 4 kids it is time
2007-12-16 19:08:15 · update #1
i have the same problem...im 21 and i've never had one either. but i read in a book in school that some women don't experience their first one until their 30s lol so you're almost there! but seriously, like someone else said you should try masturbating and get to know your own body and what you like exactly. i think that helps!!
2007-12-16 19:28:54 · answer #1 · answered by smiley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the other person said .. no one can tell you exactly why, since we don't know anything about you .. but maybe a reason could be that you haven't gone about masturbating in an efficient way?
.. I hope it's not against yahoos rules to say this .. so (18 and younger, stop reading NOW!)....
but I'd suggest buying a vibrator. Google some good techniques.
2007-12-16 19:16:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
after ruling out medical issues of course, first of all don't be to hard on yourself for lack of orgasm at 26, everyone is different. as far as the sex drive, are you depressed, that has a huge effect, are you on any medications that can lower your sex drive? i have found that making an effort to be sexual even if not initially feelin in the mood, can work. also find out what makes you feel sexy.as far as orgasm, lots of foreplay and getting turned on, a vibrator, let your partner use it on you with lots of focus on the outside and clitoris. and team work works well. good luck.
2007-12-17 01:11:59 · answer #3 · answered by nunya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure on the why part. but they do have some things you can take you can get them at walmart to make sex more enjoyable for you. also try finding someone who does funn parties they have many things that could poss. help.
2007-12-16 19:11:14 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We don't know enough about you to tell you why. What you should do - you should raise the question with your doctor.
There are some links I have attached which might be helpful.
2007-12-16 19:06:25 · answer #5 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋