2007-12-16 18:26:38 · 19 answers · asked by Brilliant Queen (BQ)_forever !!! 5 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
They will always be a part of life, yes... So first, you need to accept that fact in order to prepare yourself for any future disappointments that might come your way....
You need to have a plan, have goals, yet still remain as flexible as possible, because something or someone could change this at any time for you.
You should think though your decisions carefully, and ration out your reasons for choosing them each time. Know yourself, and you will know your decisions. Know your decisions, understand them, and you cannot regret them.... You can still make a bad decision, but it will be essayer to deal with if you don't regret them.
This is my theory on it all anyway, seems to be working so far.... The only reason I would be disappointed in my disappointments any more than necessary is if I felt I regretted them, so the key is to take the steps to not regret a decision, and the rest will follow....
(don't get me wrong though, regret isn't just about saying to hell with it, and doing whatever you feel like, and saying you wont regret it later, is about making the best decision you can at the time, or if not, realizing why you are not making the best decision and deal with any regret you may have before you decide on it)
2007-12-16 21:07:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way to avoid a disappointment is to not set your self up for one.
Never expect anything from any one and you will never be disappointed but sometimes pleasantly surprised.
To live with them it is our own fault when we are disappointed because we expected something. It might have been rained out or it could have involved plans that fell through so carry on and be happy for the things that do work out and there will be more of these.
2007-12-16 18:43:59 · answer #2 · answered by Linda S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The birth in this world has given us a chance to make this soul as great as Jesus.
Knowing the Self and World will satisfy all craving for a stress less life.
That's godly positive living.
2007-12-17 06:16:26 · answer #3 · answered by Moni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello BQ,
My point is, 'Belief is incorrect' because it is no longer a belief if it is Real. And belief is the base of cheating.
You expect favorable things, unfavorable occurrences are disappointments. When you don't expect no disappoints.
2007-12-17 02:19:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mistakes and disappointment make the sweet things in life that much sweeter
2007-12-16 18:49:53 · answer #5 · answered by boarder102 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
disappointments come about from having expectations. I learned long ago to stop expecting anything from anyone, the result...I am never disappointed.
2007-12-16 18:43:31 · answer #6 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way I know is to reduce our expectations.. if the expectation is low our disappointments will be low....but I think its very difficult to practice this...
Have a great day :-)
HAPPY NEW YEAR :-)
2007-12-17 03:18:27 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never expect or anticipate anything. from anybody. Then u will never b disappointed.
Take evrything in life as it comes - the rough with the smooth - both the good & the bad with equamity.
2007-12-16 19:27:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello BQ
i think to avoid them is impossible they are part of life as such they are the ones that make us grow up and become more mature.
all the best *=)
2007-12-17 12:56:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably thinking that there are plenty of other good things in our lives, as compared to others'. But it's quite difficult.
2007-12-16 19:35:53 · answer #10 · answered by Analyst 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋