to not rub me so hard down there?
sometimes it hurts.
but i dont want to be like "omg dont do that!" cuz i dont want him to feel all awkward?
idk?
how should i tell him but not make it seem like hes doing somthing wrong?
2007-12-16 18:17:04 · 13 answers · asked by Brenna C 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
You don't necessarily have to criticize his technique. Simply tell him, "Let me show you how I love to be touched" when you're in bed. You can place his hand down there, and show him how much pressure to put. If you want, you can make a little game of it--he can show you something he likes, and then you show him something you like e.g. a lighter touch. If he goes back to his hard rubbing ways, a gently said, "Softer" should get him to ease up. If none of this works, you're going to have to be a little more proactive. Outside of the bedroom, tell him that you are very very sensitive "down there" and it hurts when it is rubbed too hard. Tell him you like it when he touches you softly. Keep positive, focus on what he does well, with suggestions to make things even better for you.
2007-12-16 18:24:37 · answer #1 · answered by HannaRN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 14:34:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him when he starts doing it or mention it and say u like slowly and softly and eventually build up to harder...then when he starts up and too hard mention it again
2007-12-16 18:20:14 · answer #3 · answered by hottie3381 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him. If you are close enough to him to let him down there then you should be able to be open enough with him to say "Honey please don't rub so hard. It feels uncomfortable for me." I'm sure he wouldn't want you to experience discomfort when he's trying to please you. Good Luck.
2007-12-16 18:58:56 · answer #4 · answered by STRESSED spells DESSERTS 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him exactly what and how you like it. Communication is very important in the bedroom.
2007-12-16 19:01:11 · answer #5 · answered by Myk G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say "softer softer". thats not mean but itll get the point across
2007-12-16 18:21:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugh! i had a bf who would do that too! and he thought thats they way to do it but i would just push his hand away, and move on to the next step.
2007-12-16 18:21:30 · answer #7 · answered by ishybug03 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just say i would like it alot better or it would feel better if you did it softer
2007-12-16 18:21:44 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, "It's not a scratch ticket."
2007-12-16 18:25:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
..just tell it like it is... guys can handle it and are not that insensitive to women's needs...
2007-12-16 18:22:16 · answer #10 · answered by ogg08 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋