Ok, so me and my girlfriend were gonna have sex for the first time and when it came down to it, i couldnt get an erection. This is weird because any time before that like when we'd hook up i could easily get an erection but when it came down to the time, i couldnt get erect. PLEASE HELP. i need answers
2007-12-16 16:22:51 · 5 answers · asked by Joseph J 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Does planning it out and kinda forcing the matter have anything to do with it??
2007-12-16 16:43:25 · update #1
Stage fright.
You put too much pressure on yourself. You were scared to perform. You just need to relax and take it easy. Take your time. Don't make sex out to be a chore. It should be fun and relaxing.
2007-12-16 16:30:07 · answer #1 · answered by DH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See you were too nervous and due to this your hormones were not released thereby depriving you of erection. The most important factor in sex is you should be very relaxed and do not think about erection or your performance and then everything would be alright.
2007-12-17 00:30:57 · answer #2 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah.. it's just a bit of performance anxiety. It's much better to set aside a whole lot of time... get nuded up and enjoya bit of cuddling. Stuff will happen if you don't rush it. You should play a game.. get nuded up.. and try to see how long you both can last without doing it ... thats some really memorable sex right there.. dry humping!
2007-12-17 00:32:53 · answer #3 · answered by Icy Gazpacho 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats performance anxiety bra. Its happened to the best of us. You have yourself a little two excited for the first time. My advice is to screw around with her and dont intitiate the sex until you know you are good and hard. If you keep planning a time and it happens over and ovver she wll start worrying about if you attracted to her ect, ect.
2007-12-17 16:40:10 · answer #4 · answered by Confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are to anxious,try to clear your mind and relax yourself.Plan a romantic dinner and get a quite place with soft music in the background.
2007-12-17 04:37:38 · answer #5 · answered by Divan K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋