Im 40 years old and i have just become single.?

Question

I want to find the person that is correct for me. I do not go to bars, I dont party. I work very hard and alot of hours. I do not go to church and i do not want to go online to meet someone. How in the world do you meet new people.

Answer 1

Friends and family can hook you up...?

Answer 2

Try meeting people doing the activities that you do enjoy. That way at least you know you'll both have something in common. If you like to read, go to the library. Go to grocery store and ask a woman that interest you about a certain brand of food and strike up a conversation. Take a walk in the park or go to the movies and if you see a woman alone ask to join her. Friends, family and work are other good sources. A lot of cities have activities and clubs just for singles...join a class. Whatever you do, make sure you get out and mingle and socialize. She's not going to walk up to your front door.

Answer 3

I felt the same way a few years ago. And then one day, I met the man of my dreams. We just bumped into each other outside of a hospital, and we have been inseparable ever since. You never know when that one true love is going to "bump" into you, but when they do, you know it! Give it time, and don't give up!!
I don't party, drink, go to bars, church, or anything else for that matter. The only things I go to are the children's events at school. So if I can do it, you can too! Keep the faith and don't stop believing! There is a time and place for everyone, and God always has a reason for all the things that happen in our lives!!

Answer 4

well its pretty easy when u put your mind to it check your local newspaper if u live in a big city there are bound to be single functions were heaps of single people of all ages go together to meet each other its fun Ive been to a couple or you could take an opportunity to meet someone one the bus or in a supermarket use your imagination the world full of single people the problem is the single people complain that there is no were to meet the ONE i say that's crap i met my husband 5years ago on the street we literally bumped into each other and the rest as they say is history so dont worry about it to much oh find a hobby meet people and have fun and then you will find the one good luck

Answer 5

Hi...

You could consider joining a gym, taking a class such as karate, or whatever you're interested in... you might consider volunteer work somewhere....with people or animals, perhaps? it depends upon your interests.

Some communities have "singles" groups, too.. you might want to check to see if yours does.. these are not necessarily for dating only! These groups plan day trips and events like picnics and dances so that singles can get together and mingle. You might meet someone in a situation like this, or meet someone through a member?

You could get involved with your community, too...

If you have single friends, or coworkers who get together and do things (dinner after work, or weekend activities) maybe you could join them?

I have known two people who used EHarmony on line dating. It's available for a fee, and i think people who pay must be serious about finding someone... they give intensive personality evaluations and that would be one online service which might be legit... my two friends found very nice people to date... and both met compatible "partners" i might add... one couple is engaged after two years. so it's an option for someone who is busy. you can go to the site and look at it, if nothing else?

In the meantime, perhaps you could fill your spare time with hobbies and doing things you enjoy with family or friends when you can.

i wish you all the best.

Answer 6

You can meet people through work, I'm sure. Friends are also a good resource. They know you well and know your personality. Take up a hobby or interest that you really care about. What better way to find a person that you could have a common bond with? Good luck.

Answer 7

well if u work a lot of hours i know "office relationships" are forbidden but i know u probally have your eye on someone just put yourself out there and be spontanious and hope that u find someone right for you basically just keep an open mind wherever u go u never know where u might meet the woman of ur dreams, hell i met mine when i was at a paintball competition which i never ever thought would happen

Answer 8

its 2007/08..... wake up and realize that the new technology involves you meeting online or you need to get out there and meet someone. I hope you find someone, do you have any friends...probably not, huh?
I suggest throwing a party for Xmas or something, or dating someone from work perhaps, I dont know what to tell someone that wont get out there and mingle.... how sad

Answer 9

OMG! Its hard, and the harder you look the harder it gets, its not fun being alone but enjoy it for awhile, especially since you say you work so hard, save some cash, take a nice vacation, or take some time off work and join a bowling team or baseball team. Just dont stress on it, sonner or later you will hook up!

Answer 10

Hope you realize that you will never meet anyone if you don't sicialize. It is simply impossible. At least socialize with your co workers, accept invitation to gatherings etc. Show genuine interest in other people. Reach out. Good luck and do have fun.

Answer 11

u sort of are online already!

and dont u know some nice female friends.... im sure some mite secretly have a crush on u or something??

you mite need to go out somewhere to meet someone... n yeah do the friends and family thing..... maybe friends more.... unless your family knows your taste in women??