Well you see, here is my story. I am a sophomore in high school.
Here is the thing. I am not exactly popular by any means, but by no means am I a loser. So that kinda leaves me in a weird situation, especially with girls. There are girls that I would like to be friends with in my school, but our paths don't exactly mix. Many of them go to parties that I am not invited to. So it's kinda hard to get to know them or talk to them. And in school since I am not as popular as them it's hard to talk to them. So what do I do here? I mean I really have no clue what to do. I don't see myself becoming popular, as that stuff is already set in stone. So any tips or advice or anything would be greatly appreciated. Thanks for taking the time to read this post.
2007-12-16 16:02:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
first of all stay strong in your click. don't try to change yourself just so they will notice you better. if you want to talk with them then make small talk with them, don't make it seem like you are trying to get with them. it is easier to chat with people now a days because of the great little device called the computer. give her or them your on-line info. and see where that takes ya. good luck
2007-12-16 16:11:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be over-thinking this thing.
You are in high school, and you are all stuck in this building all day long. This ought to be akin to shooting fish in a barrel! Maybe you can try to get into some other courses where you can meet more girls... cooking classes are great for that... and just remember, a lot of the world's best chefs are men. Sewing class? Photography?
Try joining some clubs at school or getting into some extracurricular activities where you can meet more people.
When you get there just relax, be confident and introduce yourself.
2007-12-16 17:42:54 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then if you dont want to be popular dont put yourself out there...but if you like the girl or see a girl that i poplar then why should that hold you back...even if yall dont cross paths, make an attempt to cross...and you'll see HER and then just introduce yousefl say hi im such an such...what your name...and just tell her youll see her aorund and everyday cross that same path (at school) and then u make the first move and ask her for her number...
2007-12-16 16:33:36 · answer #3 · answered by Ayana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some nerdy girls that are cute.
2007-12-16 16:06:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋