in a prior relationship, my partner had no problem getting me to orgasm. now i'm i new relationship and have strong feeling toward him but i cant orgasm, and i get dry during our sex. i'm not a fan of playing/ exploring myself. what are my options?
2007-12-16 15:38:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
are you using a different form of birth control that could cause dryness? try lubrication, and if you don't want to make it part of sex, there is this new rephresh, that you use once every few days to increase your natural lubrication. the dryness is a catch 22, the less turned on you are the dryer, the dryer the harder to get turned on. new relationships take awhile. good luck
2007-12-17 01:29:49 · answer #1 · answered by nunya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are getting dry and never had that problem before it is because he isn't turning you on. Men love pleasing women, no guy wants to be considered inferior in bed. So tell him what he needs to do to turn you on. Maybe spice it up a bit. If this doesn't work, then maybe he just isn't hitting the right spots during intercourse. Either you are having some mental hang-ups or he isn't a great lover, and you will have to see which of those it is. I would start with some bedroom training and some personal lubricant, and if that doesn't work, talk to a sexual therapist if you like him that much.
2007-12-16 23:53:01 · answer #2 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try new things with him, lots of the time achieving orgasm is a mental thing and may be the reason you aren't getting there.. just explore and figure out what works with one guy, may work differently with someone else. Practice makes perfect :) and as far as the dryness goes, thats what lube is for :)
2007-12-17 00:41:33 · answer #3 · answered by starryeyed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get dry because you're not stimulated. Either tell your partner what you enjoy and hope he can do it or get a new partner.
2007-12-16 23:43:59 · answer #4 · answered by mykarma5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a better looking partner or one who knows how to do you right.
2007-12-16 23:43:51 · answer #5 · answered by None 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a new partner. Its not your fault, its his
2007-12-16 23:41:14 · answer #6 · answered by happydawg 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Tell him what you like.
2007-12-17 00:01:22 · answer #7 · answered by BluhBluh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋