Im 15 years old and my mom is saying im not allowed to go to my friends new years eve party. I've spent every other new years eve with them... and its not like its gonna be a crazy house party with no adults around.... do you think its fair for her not to let me go?
2007-12-16 15:35:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
she said she wants me to be with my family
2007-12-16 15:40:00 · update #1
I would need more details. if there will be adults around and NO alcohol then I would think it should be ok for you to go.
2007-12-16 15:39:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think it's fair that she wants you to be with family this year. Invite yor friend to your house to make a change.
2007-12-17 07:54:13 · answer #2 · answered by Sugababy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not fair. but you should think about how your mom looks at it from. she wants you to spend the holidays with your family is that alot to ask? besides ask if you can make an appearance with your family for like an hour or so then you can go hang out with you friends. my mom is like that all the time. you just have to negotiate with her.
2007-12-16 23:44:11 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, I don't think its terribly fair. But you should spend the holidays with your family. You have like 360 other days you can spend with your friends..at LEAST save the holidays for your family.
2007-12-16 23:45:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm 15 and I get invited to parties.
Not one have I been able to go too.
Because, my parent's can be judgmental and they think all teens are well untrustworthy.
Do I complan?
Of course not, because once I hit 18. I can do whatever I want :D
3 more years is all it is, so what's the rush? :]
2007-12-16 23:42:24 · answer #5 · answered by anchorage 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
unless she has a reason to be concerned I dont think its fair.
if the place your going to is going to have drunk adults and/or kids then I can understand why. you are getting older, peer pressure is a big thing.
2007-12-16 23:41:42 · answer #6 · answered by Baby is finally here!! 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Since you go every other year I would think that she is being unfair unless you got into trouble and this is your punishment.
2007-12-16 23:45:59 · answer #7 · answered by kim h 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well your mom proably has a reason. Parents never are just like 'No you cant go cause I dont want you to have fun'
2007-12-16 23:48:19 · answer #8 · answered by Polly. 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Fair or not, her house, her rules and she may have a good reason. sorry though.
2007-12-16 23:59:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did she give you any reasons? You should ask her what her reasons are and then assess whether they are fair or not.
2007-12-16 23:38:06 · answer #10 · answered by Olivia J 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋